okay, i told my love when we first kissed that she was my first (but forgot to add: "the first kiss between someone i love")... and now she feels i lied about that... and she feels i lied because i didn't tell her that there were other things in my past, i told her one, and i could have sworn i told her there were more, but i don't want to talk about those right now... and now she feels i am a liar... i broke her heart... i need to gain back her trust... i have told her how i feel, that i love her... that i didn't mean for them to be lies, and that they hurt her... and now she feels as if I'm lying about other things.. but there are no more lies... i regret what i have done, and now i just don't want her to be in any more pain... without her... i die... literally... please, any ideas on how to gain back her trust after messing up sooo badly?
2007-02-22 13:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by RonanRaven 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest it shows she really cares and someone who really cares always finds it in their heart to forgive...
A wise man once told me "If you really love someone, then how do you know when it's time to give up?"
The answer is never....
You've come clean and done half of your part. Now you have to regain her trust and confidence in you. Healing takes time and the deeper the wound, the longer this takes. When you're really in love the past doesn't count any more, it's all about your future together.
Explain to her what you're saying here, you've had meaningless kisses, we all have... It's that one special person that counts.
I seriously hope you guys can work it out and you should really look forward to it because it'll be beautiful.
2007-02-22 14:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok how do you forget to add that??? I'd be a bit pissed too, but hey you had a past before you met her and if she can't accept that then you don't need to deal with her. Granted I wouldn't wanna know about my bf's past lovers etc....but all you can do is apologize and try to make it better. AND ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH HER. If that's not enough for her and she just can't get past it then you need to just leave her alone and let her move on. A relationship without trust just won't work.
2007-02-22 14:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your not going to die. your about 17, right? girls will come and go. and if you have too just lie. and continue the lies until they are the truth.
2007-02-22 14:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wham 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say sorry and tell her how you feel. Add in a present if you can.
2007-02-22 14:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by claudia V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal this along with your continued honesty and patience.
2007-02-22 14:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Try You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋