Ok so the second date went really well thanks for the movie suggestions. Well now we are boyfriend and girlfriend and I am deeply madly in love with him...as much as I want to have sex with him I really think I should wait at least three months because I haven't had the best luck holding a guy for 2 months..another option would be prom night or wait till marriage....What do I do? (and just in case I did buy some condoms....)
2007-02-22 13:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by teengrl_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea I should have thrown in that I'm 17 and not a virgin...and also that I'm am worse than a guy when it comes to wanting sex and we have done oral which just makes us wanna do it more. I don't think I can wait until marriage...
2007-02-22 14:36:08 · update #1
Dear U should do this after marriage. Protection is not 100%safe. So better wait till that date.
2007-02-22 16:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What better way to find out if a guy is truly in love with you than by making him wait until he gives you a committment (marriage) before giving him the goods?
Too many times guys get what they want to satisfy their urge and then the relationship just dies off.
Letting someone have sex with you is the most intimate thing you can do, it exposes you like no other way, and it should be reserved for the most deserving of people that have proved they are worthy of it.
2007-02-22 22:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems u r not in love.. u r exactly in an infatuation..So don't use the word LOVE which is divine for this cheap act. So u need some thing physically so u get it...juz think if on a situation , u r love breaks and u gonna supposed to marry another guy... what would be u r option on it ????? It will be like cheating the guy who married u isn't it? Sex is just a feeling and if u r true lovers , u should wait until u get married with him or if its fake 1 , it wl surely end in sex and never gonna continue for auspicious things. we r humans na
2007-02-23 00:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shd hav sex with him if you're not a virgin. u havnt got virginity to lose! nt being nasty but jst saying u shd enjoy if u can. jst b careful. n see how u feel when u get near to doing it. if it dont feel right then dnt do it. use ur discretion. im sure u'll b fine. if u hav an appetite, go satisfy it. power to the girls!
2007-02-25 19:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by hollym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.
All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam in clearly written unambiguous words. In Islam, unwed voluntary sexual intercourse also is a great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
In India there is minimum age restriction for marriage (not for unwed sexual activities), 18+ for girls and 21+ for boys.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses; till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
2007-02-23 14:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until marriage
2007-02-22 22:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this is one of those things where it is waay better to wait to long than to act too soon.
2007-02-22 22:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i need to know your age first. because if you are a young age, you should just wait. you never want anybody knowing what you did, i'm not sure anyone would want to.
2007-02-22 22:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by jesse's girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your right... wait.. and you might just do some oral in the beginning... but i am happy to hear you bought some condoms.... good girll...
2007-02-22 21:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait..b/c what if u do brake up w/him before 3 months just 3 months and if your still together...do what you think is best...BE safe...
2007-02-22 22:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋