is it bad that i dunno all the "skills" that EVERY one of my best friends knows? do guys get turned off by the idea that i dont like to put out? if im bad at hooing up..will a guy be disgusted?
2007-02-22 13:53:20 · 11 answers · asked by thunderbolt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very proud of you for being a virgin.
My question to you, to ponder about, is what kind of guy are you wanting to attract? Someone that knows you'll put out and that you're easy or someone that knows that you respect your body?
It all depends on the kind of guy you want, on the future example you'll want to be for your kids and if you can handle pregnancy at your age. Your friends are playing with fire having sex and their age, if one of them gets pregnant...well, you know what happens, it's bye bye youth, bye bye dating for a while, bye bye guys who don't want to dads or step-dads... it's a lot to deal with.
2007-02-22 14:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal. Some day, when you want to have sex with a guy, and he's secretly rolling his eyes because you'll be awkward at first, he'll also like it because he's flattered that he's the one you chose.
Very few women get much joy from sex under the age of 20 or so. You're not missing much.
And while many women enjoy a male-like casual sleeping-around approach to sex at some point in their lives, typically before age 25, it usually seems to only last 1-3 years at most. Again, you don't miss much if you start late.
2007-02-22 22:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of yourself for making a wise decision! I'm a virgin too and I have to say I feel the opposite: hearing how far my friends have gone with guys who turned out to use them and the various STDS some of them got, only makes me prouder of my decision and realize it's the best decision. WHen you meet the right guy, he will respect you for having integrity and saving yourself for the right person.
2007-02-22 21:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by hj55f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad to be one of the only virgins in a group of friends! It makes you more independant and interesting! Im just like that!
2007-02-22 21:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
STAND YOUR GROUND! The right guy will not be upset. The right guy will be understanding, and comfortable with anything you are, and respectful of anything you're not comfortable with. hang in there, don't be in a rush to get rid of your virginity too soon. Trust me, you'll regret it.
2007-02-22 21:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Hodie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married. YOU will be happier for more years, HE will be happier for more years.
Don't let anybody tell you that you need to develop "skills" . You and your husband will have the utmost of fun developing these "skills" together!
2007-02-22 22:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by teran_realtor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its a good thing your still a virgin! if anyone wants to tease you about it have them come talk to me! im still a virgin! im in 9th grade! there are about 4 virgins left in my school and me and my 3 bffls and 1 friend are practically the only ones! its not a problem! have them talk to me! ill tell them the meaning of virgin! theyll be so scared they wont be able to take anyone elses
2007-02-22 21:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should never be ashamed about being a virgen! If you're not ready to go to the next level, then that's fine. Do not let anyone pressure you. It's your decision.
2007-02-22 21:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Al Bhed Princess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would hope a guy would only be disgusted if a girl did HO it up.
There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin.
2007-02-22 21:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so it is good that you are still a virgin dont put yourself out there unless you actually loves someone. make sure yoiu wont regret it.
2007-02-22 21:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋