I have liked this guy for about 2 years. We are in high school are last year and in are 3rd year i told him a liked him alot and he said that in his "Group" of friends you can't go out with a girl unless you hook up with her. WE did it and then he didn't talk to me after. A week later he says that he needs to talk about where are relation ship is going and he tells me how hot i look and how much he "needs" me we do it and he leaves this has happened about 4 or 5 more times what should i do i really like him
2007-02-22 13:51:46 · 34 answers · asked by Shenic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep it up give it up as much as can and everything will be good...
2007-02-22 13:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by sapboi 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should not have done it in the first place if he did not really like you. But since it was already done and you have done it 5 times just sit down and talk to him alone and ask him what is going on. If he has no answer he is not really into you and probably never will be. He just wanted some and you were his ticket. no hard feelings but find someone new and if you do it might make him a little jealous.
2007-02-22 13:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by cutie_w/_brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you STOP sleeping with him he only wants you for sex and you keep giving it to him like hes going to change and say your his girlfriend. youve done it with him 4or5times already and your still not a couple your his chick on the side. I know you like him but giving him your cookies isnt going to make him your man. Its going to make you look like a hoe, do know that he is telling his boys everytime he has sex with you. He is a little boy you need to be with a guy that really cares about you and will honor his word. Leave this guy ALONE remember you dont have to have sex to get a guy.
2007-02-22 14:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now as a previos high school graduate (class of 06) I could never do that to a young woman. Anyway, the guy was using you. When in high school, guys have raging hormones and all they think about is sex. He used you for sex and if he isnt going to commit now, then he never will.
2007-02-22 13:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just put out for a guy who feels nothing for you! you have lowed yourself and now you need to build it back up again. do more sleeping with him and dont talk to him. show him your stronger than him and deserve more than how he is treating you. as for you liking him, the best thing is to just get over it. find someone who will go out with you before making you put out. him and his friends are low and selfish. he does not deserve you! treat yourself better and know that you are worth more than what he can give you. if for some reason he does want to go out with you it'll only be for the sex so say no and hold your chin up, find a nice guy and forget him! good luck babe
2007-02-22 13:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O times that not part of being his g/f respect is what you should have gotten.Well you hooked up an now what??
He is a player that played you. Don't expect more. I think you should forget him. Find someone that has feelings not words that mean nothing. Be safe
2007-02-22 14:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called you his G/F by now he never will.
All he wants is sex and unfortunately your are blinded by love to see this.
There is no relationship here and you should look elsewhere before it's too late. Better to make a clean break then to drag it out when your feelings are more intense.
Sorry but that's the just the facts
2007-02-22 13:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just using you. He's not good enough for you because he's taking advantage of you, which is bad. Don't let anyone take advantage of you, it's like making them control you're life. Get over him. It's probably gonna be hard, but still. He's using you. No guy should just use a girl for sex. I understand you like him, but does he really like you? Have sex with someone that likes you. It'll be better.
2007-02-22 13:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly enough it sounds like he is just using you and his i have to do it with you to date you is a lame excuse to well do it with you and use you for just that purpose. The best thing you can do is to leave him and move on in your life. You can find a guy who likes you and doesn't have to do it with you to date you. You fell for his excuse and were very gulliable so next time be careful or you will just wind up being used again and again.
2007-02-22 13:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Just Someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though u really like him...u should leave him...i mean your almost done w/ school and once u get to college your going to find someone many new people (boys) hott ones...so just move on...it will be fine...to me it sounds like he was using u or still is.
2007-02-22 14:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING! if this guy won't let you be his girlfriend unless he sleeps with you, he is a total jerk. He knows you like him and he knows you want to be his girlfriend and he is just saing that to lure you into bed with him. If he is sucsessful with that, it will screw your life up. you may get pregnat, or your parents may find out. trust me, STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM. Even though you like him, you have to get over him he is suffering from can't-keep-it-in-my-pants-itis, and he obviously only wants you for sex. He is a jerk and he is no good for you. DROP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO!
2007-02-22 14:00:50 · answer #11 · answered by sobaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋