ok, i am 14 yrs old n never had a bf b4. n it is soooo embarrasing. especially when all of my friends talk abou how many x bfs they had. then they ask me how many i had. then i say 0 and their like, OMG!! THIS IS LIKE MY 10TH ONE! its very sad and depressing and it seems like its taking over my life! im like that type of girl who adults say that im so pretty, and all of my friends say im pretty and that i have a cute figure, but when it comes 2 guys, they think im like dead up UGLY!! and i rlly dont no wut 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 13:40:49 · 10 answers · asked by krazy chick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listening to everyone tell you that it's rough growing up doesn't make your day any easier... First of all, 14-year-old guys are not all they're cracked up to be, haha. Seriously though, I guarantee that the best thing you can do is to stop obsessing over getting a guy. All worrying does is make you miserable, uptight, and stressed... which shows through when you are interacting with others (yes, guys too!). Focus on making yourself the best YOU you can be... for yourself. The guys will find you :)
2007-02-22 13:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by tangerine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be very honest. The reason the other girls are making such a big deal about You not having a boyfriend is because they really haven't had one. Some girls (boys go through this too!) like to talk about their so-called dating experiences and most of the time it's not happening. Are you allowed to date? Because I think your too young. I know you might think something is wrong with you but it's not true. Grow at YOUR own speed. Boys at this age they aren't ready either and end up saying some mean things that later on they will regret. Observe others around you. Having a boyfriend isn't all that it seems especially at the age of 14. Try talking to your mom. If you have older sisters talk to them too. Your "friends" aren't acting like good friends. They shouldn't make you feel as if something is wrong with you. And instead of having 10 or more boyfriends they should be treating you nicer and learn how to be a better friend.
2007-02-22 13:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE 14!!! Why do you want the pressure of a boyfriend. Do you think maybe your friends are probably making it all up?
Anyway, what do they do with these boyfriends? Nothing much I bet, pretty pointless if you ask me.
I didnt have a bf til I was 18. I have had a couple since then, but at 28 am still single and happy about it. Look at your priorities.
2007-02-22 13:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! ur an idiot. u don't have 2 have a bf 2 be special. i'm almost 16 and i've never dated either-my friends have said the same thing about me being pretty. ur friends shouldn't be proud of having so many exs either. it really shouldn't be 2 embarrasing either-some guys like girls who haven't had a bf b4.
2007-02-22 13:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sarcasmic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You can never be too old for love. Hey, I'm turning 15 in less than a month and I haven't had one either.
Besides, would you rather have 10 ex-boyfriends who all sucked, or would you rather wait a couple more years and meet the perfect guy?
Just don't think about it too much, you don't want to look desperate, just be yourself and look confident, and if you're patient, the right one will come along.
2007-02-22 13:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for the right guy to come along!! he will come to you in time! and it is okay to wait cause then you will be mature enough to stay with a guy! Don't ley ur friends presure you into getting a bf
2007-02-22 13:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mind them there just being jerk they want a gurl who gone give it up easy and they see your not the one that all dont mind them your gonna find a mature boyfriend that gonna respect you. that good you aint never had a bf that would prevent you from getting rumors spread about you dont worry your day will come
2007-02-22 13:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Charleo E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a cute guy that looks trustworthy, kind, caring anything u wanna c in ur perfect bf. if hes alone in the place, introduce urself and talk.
2007-02-22 13:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh heck I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend..or even a date for that matter... It's cool to be different anyway. : ) Just be patient, and God will send you somebody in His time!
2007-02-22 13:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by ashbash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not a slut most guys like that. And you probably are a daddies girl or a teacher's pet that's a real turn off even if you are hot and even if you are hot you need to act hot and have a good personality to attract guys.
2007-02-22 13:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋