He's a nice guy and we talked all the time during the two periods we had together. But after I told him he only talkes to me during gym come to think of it I do all the talking. Is he showing me a sign of dislikement or is he trying to hide his true feelings?
2007-02-22 13:35:15 · 19 answers · asked by rosebabi478 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you scared him...remember girls mature faster than boys....and by the way so do our glands! Give him some time. Don't be pushy or needy. Goodluck!
2007-02-22 13:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by lolita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for the future, telling someone you are not already dating/seeing/involved with that you "love" him is a good way to scare a man (esp a boy) off. Love is a very strong word, and guys associate it with commitment and marriage, etc. My thought is you really scared him off. Not sure what to tell you to do now..... Maybe you can try to make a joke of it, so he things you were not totally serious? Then he might feel more comfortable with you, you could get to know each other and take it from there.
2007-02-22 21:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you blurted out your feelings for him, things are going to be a little awkward between you two for a while. If he's really a friend, he would eventually get over the awkwardness and start talking to you again. If not, I say you just forget about him and focus on someone else.
2007-02-22 21:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should back off a bit...give him some space and time to absorb your comment. boys are not as ready to discuss emotions as girls are, and I know from experience...they are scared when a girl makes the first move. give it some time..and be friendly, but do not discuss romance..he's sending you a signal that he's not ready. It sounds like he likes the fun you and enjoys your company..maybe just not ready to take it to the next level. and if he truly likes you he will come around.. if not, there are plenty of other boys who are worthy of what you have to offer
2007-02-22 21:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by hipmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you back he would talk to you as much as he possibly could. Usually avoidance means that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Don't waste your time on him, find someone that truly loves you and can express his feelings towards you!!
2007-02-22 21:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mommyof2angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have told a boy you've never even been out on a date w/ that you love him. C'mon you know that it's scary to have someone your friends w/ come up to you one random day and tell you they love you. You spooked him, find someone else and move SLOWLY.
2007-02-22 21:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by cotton~candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling guys you only LIKE that you love them. You don't know this guy well enough to know that you love him. So of course he is going to avoid you, you're TROUBLE and he doesn't want any.
2007-02-22 21:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take the hint, he probably liked you and was enjoying being your friend, but when you told him you loved him, it freaked him out. You probably moved too fast for him.
2007-02-22 21:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for a few days and see what he does....don't keep chasing him...eventually he'll come back after you....they all do because they miss the attention.
2007-02-22 21:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by free_spirit5230 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a guy hears that you love him it can put ALOT of pressure on him expecially if he doesnt feel the same way about you.
talk to him about it--find out how he feels about you-- i cant tell you if he loves you or not, only he can
2007-02-22 21:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋