My friend needs help...?

Question

My friends needs some help with boy problems
here is wat she has to say a bout it........>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
broke up with him...Why am i in love with someone who wont love me back ... i couldnt take it.. i cant find someone who seems to care bout me as much i care bout them... i loved him so much and i act like i dont care but i do i care so much i nerver wanted let him go... he said he loved and i thought he did but turns out i was wrong like alwayz... i feel like im hidding behind a mask and this mask is sayn dont show how u feel dont let them kno ur weak.. but they all kno im weak... so the mask is usless... everyone feels they must protect me from heart beark. i kno they mean well but i want him to just hold me and tell he loves me. i miss him already. i tryn to hide it but i cant it's so hard... i gave BRANDON my heart... im tryn to love someone else but it's hard... if anyone knos how i can help my heart break plez tell me help me out plez!

Answer 1

I think everyone is attracted to the ones that hurts us the most, that's the person we want to be with, but they keep breaking our hearts, stomping on it over and over again, you can not care about someone else until you grieve over this break up, accept it and then be able to move on, other wise the other guy is just a rebound from Brandon, and it will not work, you got to grieve first, and be able to let Brandon go, hes not good for you, deep down you know it, you just got to admit it to yourself, sometimes, it helps if you write them letters explaining your feelings to them, but you keep it, it also feels good to hit pillows with a bat, you could also hit your pillow with your fist, get some anger out and hurt out, you'll feel much better, then you might be able to focus on you and what you need to do, and just cause you show any type of feelings of caring does not mean that you are weak, it just simply means that you cared for that person.