We talk everyday over AIM,she knows i like her,she said she just wanted to be friends for now. So what do i do now?She still wants to talk alot and be good friends but i dont even know what to say.I am dissapointed and confused about alot of stuff.What do i say
2007-02-22 13:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,if you really like her and hope that this would lead somewhere then I'd suggest you stay being friends with her.Sometimes girls are like that,they may like you but say they wanna be friends 'cos they wanna get to know you better.Don't push her 'cos you might just scare her away!
So be a good sport and just be a good and caring friend,and talk like friends do...just make her feel really comfortable with you.Who knows...eventually she might just pop the question to you.Patience pays off sometimes :)
All the best & good luck,dear!
2007-02-22 13:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you value the friendship? If you do then be her friend. She might come around one day and when she does you'll be around.
I've been through it too. I was in love with my best friend for 4 years even through a relationship with someone else. I didn't say anything til we graduated. He only wanted to be friends. I was crushed. I thought I'd never love again. You will though.
Just remember. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You're worth more and one day someone will see that.
2007-02-22 21:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by ki55nte11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk like friends ya no?
" how was ur day today? hows everything going?" stuff like that! dont tell her you want to be with her or anything for a few weeks! ya never know those feelings might develope into friend feelings as well!
2007-02-22 21:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought maybe she's not ready to have a close relationship? some girls may be takin' or just not ready so give her some time. But when you talk to her again, tell her you are available and is still waiting on her.So maybe just be patient and a little more romantic. e-mail me at Jadaia_Wyatt11@yahoo.com for more details!!
2007-02-22 21:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by jadaia_wyatt11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the same. If you like her as a friend even more and she told you, that she wanted to be friends treat her like a friend do not put moves on her.
2007-02-22 21:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by camopaiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i now your situation very well. Just be yourself for one thing. another thing is just keep talking to her and maybe things will change but you can't expect anything too soon. the more you talk the more she might start to like you. Anyways Good Luck.
2007-02-22 21:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jay Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friend for now and ever so often hit on her and see if things move on from there.
2007-02-22 21:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. as a girl, i can tell u that "i just wanna be friends" = "i just wanna whore around". so what do u do? give her a taste of her own medicine! IGNORE HER. DONT contact her on AIM. if she contacts you, IM her back and say "hey dude. look, dont contact me at this time of day, me and this really hot chick are bangin, and we always do at this time of day. leave me alone could u? its too great of sex to pass up".
2007-02-22 21:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well first i would be friend and fallow her requests and give her some time, go out and do diffrents things like friends do and when you become her best friend then ask her again about being more than best friends!!!!
2007-02-22 21:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by jackie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just move on. be her friend and eventually she might feel the same. if she thinks you are being immature about all this, she might never want you
2007-02-22 21:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋