My boyfriend who is currently incarcerated might do about a year. He has been in there for about 6 months now. I am not able to assit him with money because I am in the struggle right now. One of his ex-flings which was a call girl ( they didnt do anything she just gave him oral) and now says she works IN MACY"S... wrote him a letter seeing how he was doing-because word on the street is that he was currently locked up and the details were already out there. Lady who is 43 years old-is ok looking--she has a lot of money-shes lonley-no children no family except her mom and dad who are loaded. He asked me before he did anything and asked her for some help. She has given him everything that he asked for and so much more. I approved in the beginnning but I feel like crap now that another lady is taking care of my man. What should I DO??
2007-02-22 13:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is incarcerated it's because he did something wrong. The state is already supporting him and most inmates have better treatment than some of us. There is no reason for anyone to be supporting him in prison. I really don't get this?
2007-02-22 13:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..I'm gonna give you an HONEST answer. You were wrong to begin with to allow her to help him. Nothing is free in this world honey. You think she isn't expecting something? You said it yourself, she's lonely, no family,,,etc..Why would you do that? You're totally setting yourself up for something bad! And what the hell is his problem even asking you if it was ok? Dump him. He's in jail anyway. He can't be that much of an upstanding citizen if he's in there. And yeah I have friends even some relatives in jail, I'll say the same about them. He'll be in for a year, I bet soon if not already they'll be sharing smutty love letters and pictures.
DUMP HIM! You don't need that sh*t!
2007-02-22 13:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this lady paying your man because she expects a long term relationship with him? If so you are both being very dishonest and you should tell her what is going on. If she knows about you and is still happy to part with her money then why feel guilty, you are all consenting adults. A word of warning, if your man is not so trustworthy he might look at you who is struggling and then at the rich lady and decide it might be easier to go to her for an easy life.
2007-02-22 13:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you can dump your guy. He is a total useless looser.
In Asian, a men eating out from her lady is a pile of shyt who cannot support himself and take care of himself. These men will categorise as "DOGS" and not even worth to be call human being. You will not find any happiness here.
You should move on to a better life with some one else that can take care of you and really loves you.
2007-02-22 13:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Med 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you actually seen her give him oral.I wouldn't believe that.As far another woman taking care of "your man",that's on her if that's what she wants to do.I'm sure any man of yours new your situation before he went to jail,and for any man to ask you to help him,in my opinion is not a man,if you haven't helped him in 6 months the next 3 will not kill him(iIhear 1 years jail time is about 8 or 9 months)Find a man thats jail-free.
2007-02-22 13:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need atleast 2 points but give me 10 i could use that more
2007-02-22 13:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋