What has this world come to? I'm sick of hearing about that.
2007-02-22 13:30:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't mean to sound "bias"... but I rely on girls to share how they feel about men not being virgins since... well men and women are both very different...... there's no better opinion I could get about non-virgin or virgin men than from women themselves.
Also, I was just informed by two of my friends that they aren't virgins... it's hard to stomach.
2007-02-22 13:50:35 · update #1
i know what you mean i persony think that a woman/girl should come to her marrige bed a virgin that is why i plan on waiting
2007-02-22 13:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who are virgins. It's more common than you think. But maybe you're being a little judgmental? Try looking at her character and not assuming that she's the whore of babylon b/c she slept with someone. Maybe she's only had one lover. Maybe more. Ultimately, I think premarital sex is a personal decision. But if virginity is way impt. to you, than I am sure there is a woman out there for you. A church might be a good place to start, although that's no safe bet. However, if your views are religious in nature, it might be a good place to meet girls.
2007-02-22 21:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're one of the few guys I think who feel that way..most guys I think are loving the fact that most girls are willing to go to bed with them without putting a ring on their finger! I agree w. you that it's a sad state of affairs that so many girls are losing their virginity at earlier and earlier ages, but think about it...if guys are promiscuous, then by default women have to be too (unless guys go sleeping with prostitutes, which by and large is not the case) So why does it not also bother you that men sleep around so much too?
2007-02-22 21:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by hj55f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls. Some are 40-something and still a virgin. For example, the nuns who live in the convent?
2007-02-22 21:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know right ! That's cause some of these parents don't give two shits about these kids and let them do whatever they want . They are to busy trying to be their friend instead of the parent ! They just don't realize their messing their futures up by being their friend ! That is a very good question to bring to the table ! Why do parents try to be a friend to their kids instead of a parent ?
2007-02-22 21:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think you get disappointed b/c you're still a virgen. You'll get over it someday once you digest the fact that that's the way it is. I felt many times like you just to think I wasn't going to be the first one in my husband's life. I am giving up the idea of meeting someone who loves me and who would share our first time ever.
2007-02-22 21:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by BeckhamGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not the sacred institution that it was once held to be. It's more centered for pleasure. With all the peer pressure that young women are exposed to it's kinda expected. I don't know what age group your in, but I pray it's somewhere is the late teens or early 20's. I agree with you that kids are having sex way too early.
2007-02-22 21:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by War Veteran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it shouls make it even better when you hear of a girl who is still a virgin. try not to judge people or feel sad for them, because they might not feel that way about it. think of it this way, when you find your virgin girl, you'll know that she has the same morals as you and you'll know that you're right for each other
2007-02-22 21:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, hun, I know what you mean! ALl of my friends, and I mean ALL of me girlfriends have lost it! Im the oddball in the group, Im still a virgin, To them, it's fun to lose it early, it makes them feel cool, loved, and special. But they dont get that when they become pregnant, Like my friend Hannah is, that its snot so glorious after all....One day, maybe soon, they'll understand the importance of abstinance.
2007-02-22 21:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
same here.
like 12-13 year old girls are already sleeping around, like it's not biggie. not until they realize that they'll get HIV or pregnant if they don't stop.
but it's all the media's fault. they show celebrities getting pregnant, divorced, remarried, anorexic, slutty, boobs hanging out, short shorts, and so they think it's no big deal.
stupid people. go to church every once in a while.
2007-02-22 21:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋