well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot.this has been happening since december. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me? i know i have to talk to her but i'm a little nervous. i wouldn't really know what to say.
2007-02-22 13:12:47 · 18 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she just feels bad for turning you down. Either that or her friends had a say in the decision and didn't want you two to go out but she secretly likes you.
2007-02-22 13:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like you, then it's really immature of her to send her friends . If she doesn't like you move on. I'm trying to be honest so here it goes, girls are fickle, believe me I know. We like to get asked out but sometimes we dont like who does the asking. or the way its done. But after the question is there the option stays.
Like if you were to ask me out I'd probably say no (mostly cause I dont know you) then begins the cat and mouse game. Either I want you to beg or I like that you are my back up.
Age factor is a huge deal so we have to thing about things we like long term most of the time so are you going to be out of school in a couple of weeks, *(senior dates freshman)
and the huge factor is family are we allowed to date? maybe that could of been a huge factor.
First of all breathe people can't understand mumblers
be honest tell her how you feel.
second ask her directly what stops you two from being together.
finally dont listen to her friends? if she has something to say she should just say it,
be good to your heart if she says yes then be happy together and if she says no move on and don"t wallow. You will find your soulmate one day,
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-22 21:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes you, her feelings may have changed in the past two months, perhaps you bringing up the subject of dating got her thinking and she liked the thought, try asking her out again, nothing formal, try asking her to your house to watch a movie you both like, also remember friends of friends don't always know the full story, the friend that said "she said no" may have thought that was correct when actually it wasn't, never trust friends of friends on such stories, try always going strait to the person about stuff
2007-02-22 21:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one possible reason...she didnt answer right away because she didnt want to seem to anxious.
her friends told you she said no, how convenient that the girl didnt tell you in person, most likely she asked them for an opinion on you and they gave it.
now she is sitting there, unable to do anything, because she allowed her friends to make a decision for her instead of her doing it herself.
now she wants your attention but cant let go the thought of going against her friends' opinion because she made the error of asking them...my, how sad, that she cant think for herself and now screwed herself over.
you are better off with someone else that can speak for themselves and not play head games.
2007-02-22 21:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes this has happened to me well what girls do when they find out someone likes them they like to look good in front of guys so they act shy and not themselves then if the boy gets a girlfriend they get jeaulse and think if he asked me again i would go out with him try hope it works
2007-02-22 21:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by bronte d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys must be pretty young. It seems like you're both shy. She probably likes you but the only way to know for sure is to talk to her alone... not with her friends because obviously they don't seem to be helping this along...
2007-02-22 21:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and say something along the lines of, "Remember when I asked you out and you said you'd think about it? Well, you never really answered..." If she says no, you need to just take it as no. If she says yes...well, smiles for you! Good luck!
2007-02-22 21:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by WAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. possibly she said no because she is shy. I know that might sound silly but she might have thought you were asking her out as a joke because she heard it from her friends not from you. If you see what I mean?
Anyway your best bet is to actually talk to her in person.
2007-02-22 21:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was interested she would have said yes. She was probably flattered and surprised which is why she looks at you (checks you out). She is probably quiet now around you because she feels bad that she doesn't share your feelings of attraction.
2007-02-22 21:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note and ask her how she feels. Maybe her friends are telling her not to go out with you. Or maybe she's not allowed to date yet. But it does sound like she likes you very much
2007-02-22 21:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋