when you meet a girl for the first time in a pub or club or blind date what makes you interested?
Is it the way they are dressed? The way they smile? Personality? Everyone is different but what was the best first impression someone made on you?
2007-02-22 12:47:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
placebo fan hmm where to start??? i dont have a self confidence issue, if i did i wouldnt have a pic up at all, all i can say is its easy for people without pics to make comment on those who do,and as for the **** remark, you try finding a top in todays fashions which doesnt show some cleavage....oh thats right you flat chested lot dont have that problem do you!
this was a general question to see if anyone had any interesting stories to share, not to gain tips for pulling.
2007-02-22 13:36:50 · update #1
Well for me it was my adoarable gf's American accent.That got my attention for sure! Im a sucker for foreign accents! But i guess it was her smile & the way her brown eyes kinda sparkled when she laughed.I remember the way she swished her ponytail when she talked - that got my attention for sure! She made me comfy with her right off which was weird as i had just come out of a bad relationship.I was hooked from day one! I'm happy to say we've been together 15 totally ecstatic totally wonderful months!
2007-02-22 13:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation - If its a set date then general looks - I like a sexy look but at the same time not easy, In a club or a bar anyone could walk past me and I might not notice but if she's waring some nice perfume it does make turn rounnd have a lookn - in which case I look at her butt. I think personality will always take a back seat to looks unless you have never seen the person just spoke via Email, txt etc or have known them for ages as a friend
2007-02-22 20:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the chemistry, you can look at someone and tell if they are on the same page as you, other people can see things in your face that you had no idea you were showing, we can see if you think you got a shot or not, if you think you don't we think you don't. a positive attitude is more valuable than anything else. if a female thinks she doesn't have a shot, the first thing she will try to do is beat you down so she won't be as intimidated by you, that attitude shows when you look at someone, don't do it. destroy those thoughts and think of something positive about yourself , why he would benefit from having you as a g/f. don't beat yourself up , it will show in your eyes.
2007-02-22 12:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but let me tell you what I think... We all know that the first thing guys look is the face, body, legs, etc... that's true, if you want them to feel attracted to you then wear something nice and sexy but don't look like a ****, cuz they might like to look at girls that look like sluts, but in the end they never stay with them cuz their first impression of them is that they're easy girls. The best way to make a guy interested in you tho is just being yourself, just that, if you're not comfortable with your body or if you have low self-esteem, they'll realize about it and of course they won't like it, they want girls who are comfortable in their own skin... so yeah, that's my advice... and something else, no offense, but that pic you have right there might make guys thing you're an easy girl, I mean why show your breasts? that means you're not self confident enough to put just a pic of your face, you have to show your breasts, a private part of your body... I'm sorry but I think that's wrong, it shows that you want a lot of attention, which means that you have a low self esteem, I mean, getting attention is cool, who doesn't like it... but using your body for that? Only sluts do it.
2007-02-22 13:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? DeSi ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me, it is when the girl is interested to meet me in anywhere with anything she loves to dress and be and at the same time I like to meet the girl too in everything I wear and be at the same place. Doesn't matter anyway. As long as we like to meet each other and that is the best first memorable impression.
2007-02-22 12:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a but head, just the looks, if you're a good guy, u may want fall for a different girl, one that is just herself, that knows how to love and be loved, without being selfish or narrow minded.
Please go for the right, is longer but when you find it, is BETTER!
Look in other places too, different places mean different guys for you.
2007-02-22 12:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by mr. luis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course dress, smile & personality but,also her confidence. Eyes, and legs and everything inbetween.
2007-02-22 14:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things have stayed with me about my first true love, the first time I met her, her eyes were clear and sparkling, the scent she was wearing was clinique!
2007-02-22 13:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you walk towards a person when you come to greet them
2007-02-22 12:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by colin050659 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way she looks at me
The more she makes me feel comfortable the more enjoying anf fun it is
2007-02-22 13:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋