My girl friend broke up with me last week and i still feel so bad. she has done somethings that shouldnt be forgiven but i still love her more then life and i would do anything in my power to keep seeing her pretty smile, but it is so hard to see her as a friend and i dont even think we will remain friends and that would break me. i keep dreaming about her and its just so hard. today i was day dreaming that she walked up and gave me a hug and smiled real pretty and i just wanted to fall. i love her more then the world and she doesnt even think the same about me anymore. what can i do to let her know that i still care for her and remain good friends because everything i try seems to make it worse, she was the reason i got up every morning with a smile and feeling invincible and i would hate to lose that...
2007-02-22 12:43:49 · 13 answers · asked by Matt W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww darl there is nothig you can do to get her back in love with you... sorry. but there is nothing stopping you from being friends. text her something very nice and also write i would love to be friends with no hard feelings. say you just would miss her so much and you love seeing her happy. make her feel like you cant live without seeing her. here i would write this...
hey just me, i was jsut thinking and i want us to be friends with no hard feelings about the past. i know i would miss you but i would rather have you as a friend than not at all. and no this isnt some excuse to get you back, i think i would just miss you too much if i never saw you. i like seeing your smile and i want to be there for you when you need someone. so what do ya say? friends? pwease?
but dont message her that you love her. that makes it seem that your not over (i know your not but we want her to think you are and that your ok with it). good luck babe, email me if ya wanna talk about it some more. good luck
2007-02-22 12:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuk, going through a break up is really hard. It sounds like you need to get over her. If she doesn't want to be together there's nothing you can do to change that. I would suggest that you not be friends with her, you need to stop all contact so that you can get over her. You'll be sad for a while but as time goes by things will get better and eventually you'll even find a new girlfriend. But, one thing you should keep in mind is that your entire life should never be completely dependant on any one person. Go out and do things that you enjoy. Watch some good comedies, etc.
2007-02-22 12:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well that's tough. I was in the same situation but eventually i just got over the guy. But i have to say, girls don't like it wen a guy that they don't like bugs them to take them back. It's not a cool thing in our eyes. Just try ur best to get over her. Avoiding her helps. And try to find a new GF that you can't stop thinking about and get the other girl out of ur head. If she shows feeling toward u stilll it's because she feels bad for breaking up with you and wants to still be FRIENDS. :) gud luck.
2007-02-22 12:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In truth, I would suggest buy a nice card and send it to her. In the card explain to her that you still do love her, but you respect her wishes. That you and here were very close and you would hate to lose that friendship.
At times when you first break up it is hard to remain friends, many can and for others it takes years to mend and trust once again.
Take things slow and learn to live and be happy for yourself, to be happy for another is losing sight of yourself.
2007-02-22 12:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Talena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being friends isn't possible. You need to give it a little time & move on. She has done things that are unforgivable but you still want to be friends? That is nice of you, like I said give it a little time. Don't ignore her when you see her, but don't go out of your way to be around her or to talk to her. When you do have the chance, tell her that you still want to be friends, no hard feelings...
2007-02-22 13:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds hard,but give up on her,find someone new.
You can never have a relationship with her again if she doesnt feel the same about you.Time heals everything,today you feel awful,by next month you'll feel alot better,and if you meet someone new,then the other one will be totally forgotten,trust me!
2007-02-22 12:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by carin1983 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men, i'm not a girl, but i'll tell you, let urself rest from her for a while, look for other treasures outsides, she may notice that u don't pay ttention to her and get closer to u. if that doesn't happen, be happy! I've foun the right girl for me after 17 years! GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-22 12:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by mr. luis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL...If I were you, I would tell here exactly what you said in that paragraph. That could be very very powerful and maybe shell think twice. And if she doesnt..shes the one missing out!
2007-02-22 12:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself. Is what she did absolutely unforgiveable? Did she do it to test you or is she trying to tell you something? If you can't answer these questions, ASK her you have to talk in any relationship. I hope things work out.
2007-02-22 12:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by catteyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will never work out being her friend, after being her lover....!!!!! You should take sometime get over her and go on with your life, you can find these feelings again with some one else. I know you think you won't but you will!!!!
2007-02-22 12:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋