Well, last december I met this guy at a christmas party, we clicked instantly, and by the end we were watching a movie together and holding hands and leaning on eachothers shoulders. But a few days later, I moved an hour away, so I cant see him. We got eachothers cell numbers and we text all the time. He always says goodnight to me, and I really REALLY miss him. Its just i dont think there is a way I can see him. He gets his lisense in April, so he could drive up here I guess, But he is 2 years older than me and my parents would be mad if they found out. What should I do?
2007-02-22 12:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is best not to hide your problems from your parents as they care and want to help you .Who knows,they may want to help you make arrangements to see him if they consider you both to be responsible. You are not being responsible by keeping things hid>>> From a father of six.
2007-02-22 12:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a good idea and please do not force things. He is older than you and now getting his license???? that show he is still dependent on something or someone you need to chill if he offers to drive and see you make sure and tell someone and go in a public place. You just met him so the only thing you miss is not getting to know him more. Take your time and let him make the effort to do things the right way. Love is not found overnight and at a Christmas party it is something that grows with time . Over the phone you cannot know someone they could tell you things that sound sweet. I am sure your parents thought you better than that. You must be smart to think of you parents and consider what they will think . So listen to yourself you already feel it is not right then it is not right. He can visit but do not get to serious he lives to far anyway so you never know just take it slow.
2007-02-22 20:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by PiNeApPle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really miss this guy, (and I know this might not be what you want to hear) tell your parents and propose that he come over for dinner or something so that they could get to know eachother. If you still are against involving your parents, just tell them you're going out on a date. They might be more enthusiastic about the whole thing if you went on a double date or included some of your friends.
2007-02-22 20:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your parents be mad 2 years is nothing at any age. I would talk to them and see what they say if they get mad then worry about it if they are OK with it then maybe they will let him come up or you go there??
2007-02-22 20:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep this as a friendship for right now. And have your parents meet him as your friend. If he is a really good guy your parents will be more supportive in your decision to date him. So for right now just be friends. If its meant to be you will both eventually be together.
2007-02-22 20:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sure that you like the guy. As a guy, I would hate to find out that my girl likes another guy. But if you don't agree, just think about the consequences and then decide your answer.
2007-02-22 20:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by latios05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always tell them before they want to see the guy
like tomarrow or something say i met this guy
and then a week later say o this guy really wants to meet you and i would mean alot to me if you meet him
and your parents and your bf should click
and dont forget to tell them that he is older than you
2007-02-22 20:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by heyy sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to cool it if you know your parents would be mad. You've only had like 1 date with him, so you should spend more time getting to know people in your own area.
2007-02-22 20:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just going to give up like that... if you really like him... be paitent... better things will come... when you hope for it... april isnt that long either... 2yrs isnt that bad... follow your heart... go do what would make you happy... if your parents love you... they need to understand that your growing up... but... if your going to do some thing you dont want to do... then it isnt for you... parents just get to over protective... but be paitent... it'll get better... hope for the best... and your parents need to accept your decisions... unless its some thing not appropriate... but yes... again i say... "follow your heart... and do what would make you feel happy"... ^_^
2007-02-22 20:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Savor the wonderful memories of this person and find someone new in your new place.
2007-02-22 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋