I started dating this guy like a month and a half ago. We've already gotten to third base... two different times. I just wanted to know if we're taking things too fast...? I know this may sound weird but I completely trust him already and I know we're going to be together for a long time.
2007-02-22 12:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Keelie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're doing just fine, remember that "too fast" is a relative thing... what is too soon for some dates is just right for others! Third base is fun, but feel free to go "all the way home" when the time seems right.
2007-02-22 12:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about who thinks your going too fast or too slow, go the past that you feel confortable with.
i take it slow and so does my fiance, we've been going out for 2 years, and we didnt start holding hands til 3 weeks after going out and kiss on the lips a month after we started going out. and nothing sexual til about a year. and we're now going out for 2 years and still no sex.
So go the past you and him are confutable with. i aslo known ppl who had sex within the first 2 weeks. but i see them as well you know what i'm talking about. thats another thing you dont want to go to fast b/c other ppl may say things about you and him.
2007-02-22 12:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together 6 weeks and are already sexually intimate with him? Yes, I would call that too fast. I think you might want to reconsider trusting him completely until you know him for 6 months rather than 6 weeks.
2007-02-22 12:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not trying to be critical...but exactly how do you know that you'll be together for a long time?
my g/f and i have been together for 7 months and haven't gotten that far, and dont plan to. but personaly, i'd say YES, that's moving way too fast.
2007-02-22 12:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah.... settle down a sec. What does he want to do? Just ask him do you think we are movin a lil fast? and then say look I really like you and I don't want to lose you because Im movin too fast. And just wait for him to reply.
2007-02-22 12:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent moving too fast unless it feels too fast for you, if you want to slow it down then slow it down, he will understand if he isnt trying to use you
2007-02-22 12:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by smaug8133 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume ur old enough to make ur own decisions about dating..dont let anyone judge u about decisions u're making. if u feel totally comfortable doing what ur doing..thats completely fine.
2007-02-22 12:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by cj872006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, yes. but that is because im VTM or virgin til marrige. if you trust him then i guess it's ok...maybe.=]
2007-02-22 12:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by *~*flyleaf rocks out loud*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only twice???? i think ur going too slow my lady!
2007-02-22 12:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm....not sure..but i think you are...
2007-02-22 12:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋