my best friend's cousin asked me out and for some reason i said no. he is only one year older than me, buh that wasnt the problem. when i went over to her house, he wuz there and he kept sending me trxt messages that if i could go upstairs cuz he wanted to ask me suttin. when i went up, my best friend kept going upstairs too, so he didnt ask me. however, he ended up askin me and i told him i'll tell him before he left. he lives all the way in long island and the only time i see him is when i go over to my best friends house and he is there. my best friend is moving to another state so i wont even b able to c him after she leaves this summer. we cant c each other in other ways cuz im not allowed to date. he is really sweet and he came to me infront of my best friend and asked me for the final answer. i didnt know what to say but then my best friend says NO and he stares at me like 'REALLY?' after that i had to say no. was that a good choice though? and if i wasnt, wah should i do?!?!?!
2007-02-22 12:35:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as it may hurt or confuse you right now, I believe you went with your instincts when you said "no" the first time. If your parents don't want you dating yet, you gave the best answer. Your best friend backed your decision, which was a good thing. Remember he is her cousin and she knows him better than you do. I believe you made the right choice, don't second guess yourself. It will only cause you a lot of grief down the line. A person can only do the best they can with what they have at the time.
I suggest you talk to your best friend and talk it over with her. She may help you work on this. Remember to make your own decisions with no emotional pressure from others. If they push you into making an immediate decision, simply decide not to decide at that time. Good luck hope this helps.
2007-03-02 11:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your parents have said that you cannot date yet, it was a perfect answer. Let it be. When you are old enough to date there will be other boys available. Just be flattered and let it go.
2007-02-22 12:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have said yes and found a way to see him. your so called best friend should be happy for you even if it is her cousin. i mean doesn't she want both of you to be happy? plus then you would be family so i don't see what the fuss is about. i would be tellin him "YES!" as soon as i next saw him and claim temporary insanity at the last time we talked.
2007-02-22 12:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you don't think that a long distance relationship would work then yes, you made the right decision. They are hard trust me.
2007-02-22 12:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wave good by when your best friend moves. You don't owe her by dating her relative.
2007-02-22 12:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't aswer the way someone else wants you to answer. have enough balls to answer for yourself, although you saved him from heartbreak i hope he finds someone else.
2007-03-01 22:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did he ask you
2007-02-22 12:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋