theres this shy girl ive known for 6 months now . ive done so much for her . She seems not to appreciate me at all, i wrote her songs, bought her gifts, told her i would really enjoy to take her out sometime. but all she does is make up rediculous excuses. today i asked "So think you can do anything? go out" she replied, "no, something might happen, get kidnapped, or something" . (Shes filipino) i dont now if that has anything to do wit it. but iono shes just really shy sometimes round' me and its just getting to a point to where i just dont care no more? What should i do Move on? should i still befriend her if i have feelings for her knowing if she might not feel the same? or just end_ Relationship for good?
2007-02-22 12:16:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anthony V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might just be too shy, and she might not know what to do so she's making up excuses because she's afraid she will screw up the date. Her parents might not let her go out with anyone yet, so ask her about it casually and see what she says. Maybe her parents do actually think that she's going to get kidnapped (not necessarily by you). I seriously mean no offense or any racism, but Asian parents have a tendency to be more protective and it's just because their overall culture is different. (Have you ever heard of the video "Asian parents" on UTube? If you haven't, you should go check it out! It's pretty funny, in an innocent way.)Tell her your worries, and see what she says.
2007-02-22 12:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Sorry to break this to you but she doesn't like you, I had the same problem and at the end my friends told me to forget her I mean theres plently of women around the world so look for another and so I did, I would suggest you do the same, because that girl it's never going to make it happen.
Good luck finding someone else!
2007-02-22 20:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to go up to her and demand an answer (nicely) and ask her whether she even likes u or not. i think that she does she's just really shy. i can get like that sometimes but im sure after ur first date with her...she will MOST LIKELY get more confidence in herself and loosen up. trust me if she really likes u, she'll get used to u and become unshy towards u. dont move on. keep on trying. and that is really cool how u write her songs. she must LOVE THAT. ( i would) :)
2007-02-22 20:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is not interested, But she doesnt know how to tell you, she doesnt want to hurt you. The best thing to do I think, is to just ask her, if she is into you. If shes not, then just ask if you can be freinds,which is better than nothing. She may be EXTREMLY shy, But I just dont think she is into you. Sorry....
2007-02-22 20:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not trying to be harsh, but... It kinda seems as though your the only one who thinks there is a relationship. So... you wouldn't have to do much to end the "relationship"... just stop talking to her. She might come talk to you every once in a while instead.
2007-02-22 20:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that she doesnt like that way because if she did she wouldnt make up excuses to not hang out with you.
2007-02-22 20:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a shy girl i was in a simmilar situation..........and this guy whated to hang out with me so bad i had just met him.......and i could tell that he was really nervous so i said yea....so the next night he picks me up and takes me out to dinner WITH THE PARENTS! he dropped me off (and i was so not into him) the next day he SENT ME ROSES! and keep calling me and kept wanting to hang out (it was so annoying)..........................................
2007-02-22 20:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to her and evetually she might open up to you. If she doesnt then just be her "friend". Until then act normal around her
2007-02-22 20:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by flonkas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe uer gifts and songs freak her out. id get freaked out
2007-02-22 20:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by ily[: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to sound like an *** but move on doesn't sound like she's that into you.
2007-02-22 20:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋