My bf constantly checks out other girls' butts whenever we go out. At first he would just move his eyes, but now he actually turns his head their way. Should I make a huge fuss over this? I do feel that it's a form of disrespect.
2007-02-22 12:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by Angelheart 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are primitive when it comes to visual stimulation. (This isn't ment to be offensive to you guys, but you know it's true!)
While it might seem disrepectful, and to an extent it is, he's just doing what he's programmed to do. Brush it off...I mean, you're the lucky girl at his side right? He chose you for a reason.
If it really bothers you that much, mention it to him. Tell him how it makes you feel (angry, inferrior, jealous...) and then LISTEN to what he has to say.
2007-02-22 12:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would approach the subject with him. But I think it's important for guys to check out other women just as women check out other men. It's in our nature. But I would express how you truly feel about it with him. Have it be a good conversation and not one that turns negative or hurtful!
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-22 12:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by janellekel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think that if he turns his head and looks away hes not really that into u. so u need to ask him who he really likes...u or those other girls. u should tell him that u dont look at other guys in sexual desire and he should feel kinda guilty. and if he doesnt feel guilty, hes not into u and therefore u should end it unless u know that he is perfect for u and u cant find ANY FLAWS IN HIM.
2007-02-22 12:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. Eventually I got over it.
You shouldn't worry too much all guys do that. If he starts talking to other girls and flirting... then you should worry.
2007-02-22 12:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend checks out girls all the time.... i found it fun checking girls out with him ...guys will be guys....every guy your with will check out girl.....so i learned to avvoid it... i dont check out guys cuzz its more fun to check out girls make fun of them and everything the only time i do look at guys its cuz my man will say something
2007-02-22 12:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Britt<3Vincent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. at least show you some respect when you with him. You should tell him what he did, really bother you.
2007-02-22 12:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL GUYS DO IT ITS LIKE BREATING FOR US
YOU CANT TELL ME YOU DONT NOTICE HOT GUYS AND IF YOU SAY YOU DONT LOOK AND THINK THEY ARE HOT THEN YOUR A LIAR
2007-02-22 12:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋