What does this dream mean? I'm really freaked out!?

Question

can you help me figure out what this dream means...
Far the past three nights i've been having this dream over and over usually right before I wake up...One of my guy friends(whom I have a crush on) is laying in the hospital with all of these wires hooked up to him...i'm sitting there by his side and all that I can do is cry. What does this mean? It's really scaring me.

Answer 1

well, it sounds like the dream is telling you that he is a really important figure in your life, and you're scared that you could lose him (not necessarily in the sense of him dying, but generally just lose him emotionally). Check out dreammoods.com for dream interpretation. Here are just a couple clues to what your dream might be saying:

Hospital
To see a hospital in your dream, symbolizes your need to heal or improve your physical or mental heath. You need to get back to the flow of everyday life.

Crying
To dream that you are crying, signifies a release of negative emotions that is more likely caused by some waking situation rather than the events of the dream itself. Your dream is a way to regain some emotional balance and a way to safely let out your fears and frustrations. In our daily lives, we tend to ignore, deny, or repress our feelings. But in our dream state, our defense mechanisms are no longer on guard and thus allow for the release of such emotions.

Finally, here is some info on recurring dreams:
Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.
Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month, but whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.
The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled. Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.
Following are some tips in overcoming your recurring dreams.
1. In understanding your recurring dream, you must be willing to accept some sort of change or undergo a transformation.
2. You must be willing to look within yourself and confront whatever you may find no matter how difficult it my be.
3. You must be able to look at the dream from an objective point of view. Try to get pass the emotional and reactive elements of the dream and get down to the symbolic images. Many times dreams are masked by elements that are disturbing preventing you to delve any deeper. This is a defense mechanism that your unconscious may be putting up.
4. Be patient. Do not get discourage if these dreams still recur even after you thought you have come to understand them.
5. Learn to accept yourself truly and fully.
Often times, once you discover what your recurring dream is trying to tell you, these dreams will change or altogether disappear.

edit: also, info on seeing your crush on your dream (again from dreammoods.com):
To dream that you have a crush on somebody, is a literal reflection of your attraction and fascination for that person. To see your crush in your dream, represents your current infatuation with him or her. If you find yourself thinking about him during the day, then it is understandable that his image will appear in your dream during the night. If your dream that your crush rejects you, refers to not knowing how he or she really feels about you and whether he likes you or not.

Answer 2

Hi, Ki-Ki. There's a few things that come to mind, and one is that your bf/spouse (if you have one) sometimes reminds you of your dad in such a way that it really turns you off. If you ever told him something like "You're not my dad!" or accidentally called him "dad", he might have some striking similarities to your dad. Another possibility arises from the fact that creativity and sexuality share the same source -- the eros -- and if you and dad make a good team, and have some pretty good interaction together, that intimacy and creativity during the day might cause such dreams while you sleep. Possibly, you like some of your dad's quality and want to find that in a man. And, dad's can be sexy men, which may be a factor. Although such dreams can indicate an actual sexual attraction, you really, really, really do not seem to fit that category. ~Os

Answer 3

in dreams we often work out our biggest fears. The brain is never asleep and is always working things out for us. Don't worry or fret. Dreams do not cause reality they only help us cope with our greatest anxieties. Have a great day and sweet dreams!

Answer 4

This is a latent homosexuality dream. It means you are gay.



Who knows what it means, it could mean that your friend is losing his health and needs help from outside to help keep him alive/monitor him.

Is he doing drugs? Suicidal? In a bad relationship?

Answer 5

Go to a search engine and type in "lucid dreams" its very interesting and educational. Good Luck.

Answer 6

If your into a lot of wired stuff and watching odd movies i think you should stop! and it means that you like him thats all i have to say about that.

Answer 7

(((((One of my guy friends(whom I have a crush on)))))))

Just guessing by this statement ,I would say that your afraid that he's slipping away from you and any chance of the two of you being together.

Answer 8

You're afraid of losing him. Tell him about your dream.

Answer 9

I'm no dream interpreter but I would say that your dreams means if you can't have that man then you will just die or if you can't have him no one can and you will kill him.

Answer 10

i think it means you should unhook those wires and wake him up

then just get with him and keep him