How do i know if a girl likes me for just being in the military and do people know i'm in the military wheni walk around town or when i go somewhere to eat???
2007-02-22 11:57:22 · 7 answers · asked by dovera1c 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
This is a cute question. There are women out there that seek out military guys, because they offer some things that many women are looking for. Although, I most definitely don't believe that ALL women love military guys more than any other.
Cash, military guys, especially younger single ones have more money than they know what to do with, which in itself can cause problems, LOL. You have no real expenses, except for maybe a car payment, and a credit card or two.
If you're smart about your money, you'll always be able to dig into the wallet for a twenty dollar bill for dinner or a movie. Let's face it, women love a guy that spends money on them almost as much as they do one that just spends time with them.
Physique, being in the military generally means you're going to be in good physical condition. Which also suggests that you're active, and are not going to sit on the couch 24 hours a day.
Smart, military personnel tend to be better read, and understand more about the world around them than even some college students. Mostly because world events can have a lasting affect on your life. You're brought up in the military to be aware of your surroundings, and take responsibility for yourself, yet another trait that women love.
It really depends on where you are, if you're in a military town, you'll stick out like a sore thumb. The locals will automatically pick you out of a crowd as military. You're clean cut, carry yourself with a sense of pride, and just generally act more mature than others your age. If you're in an area that doesn't see much military, then you may find yourself blending in a little better, even though you may still stand out to a lesser extent.
This question is one of those that draws rather subjective answers however. So I'm not sure you'll ever really get a "right" answer.
2007-02-22 12:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hoydie17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I can point out a soldier the minute I see him, but then again I live on a base and I live in a state of primarily if your white then your a student or military. You have the hair cut, you have the embalms on your car, you have the walk, which changes with branch. You might wear your dog tags and you can see the chain. A few women do go for guys that are in the military for sad things such as getting away from their small town, move around, see a lot of places, be paid to have kids. FEW, NOT ALL, most women marry military men because they LOVE THEM, they are marrying the men, not the military, I know I married the man and not the military. Some women are military brats and don't want to join but want to stay close. Whatever the reason you might not know from the very beginning, but in time you will know, don't rush things because you are in the military and if she loves you and not the military she will wait, but if she starts looking at other guys in uniform then...and
ACUs are HOT :)
2007-02-22 13:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of women like military men, some of the ways people around town know you are military even if not in uniform, the hair cut, the bearing. The way you carry yourself, its different from a civilian
2007-02-22 12:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware of Fort flies, they only want you for your paycheck and will not understand your thinking or ways. Date a girl already in boots my friend. People in towns that are close to military instalations depend on you for their survival. They will be nice for as lond as you are an example to the community.
2007-02-22 13:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women are liking about you is your maturity. Men in the military are most appealing because they are also not woosies.
All the sissy boys stayed back and avoided the armed services so they could skateboard, play video games and mooch off others.
Thanks for your service.
2007-02-22 12:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends, yeah maturity and bearing and haircuts might give you away. Women might also like you because you have a steady job and income. Get to know the girl first. If your just dating and she is already talking about marriage or wants to go shopping all the time then ditch her.
2007-02-22 12:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Koolaid1730 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you've got to admit, dress uniforms look swanky.
2007-02-22 12:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by serious troll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋