ok, heres the thing! i have been daten my bf now for 6 months and i really do love him i love being with him alos!! but my ex) who i dated for three years calld saying he really misses me he was crying and everything i will always love my ex we had been through alot with eachother!! and i will always have him in my heart.. but do u think it would be right or ok if i stioll talkd to my ex just as friends? i mean we cant let eachother go and i do wanna be with my bf now.. my ex has a gf too would this be ok?
2007-02-22 11:57:17 · 5 answers · asked by becca m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you like both of them i think u should decide who you like more. let your heart decide not people on yahoo
2007-02-22 12:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by elizabeth s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, put yourself in your boyfriend's position.. would you appreciate it if your boyfriend still loved his ex girlfriend of 3 years, and still communicated with her daily? And it was apparent that the ex girlfriend still had feelings for him, and constantly was calling him, telling him that she misses him and crying to him? I really don't think you would appreciate that one bit. So why would you do that to your boyfriend? Why continue to talk to your ex boyfriend, knowing that feelings are still there. Yeah it's OK to still love him, but to be in love with him? Are you in love with him? You have a boyfriend, so stop worrying about your ex. So what if he's calling crying to you, ignore him, don't pick up the phone calls. It's not OK. If you guys still love each other and miss each other, then why are you two not together anymore? ? Obviously it didn't work out, so move on. Concentrate on your relationship with your now boyfriend.
2007-02-22 20:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this would be fine because its not like ur having a secrect realtionship...even ask your bf if its ok if you still tlak to him if hes so great he will understnad
2007-02-22 20:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by colin J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have love for him but are u in love with him? i dont think that your bf would like it if he found out that you still talked to you ex. would you like it if he still talked to his ex? youdont do that to someone you love
2007-02-22 20:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by LJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it causes WAAAAAY too many problems.
2007-02-22 20:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋