On and off relationship, I think I know what to do, but your opinion can't hurt.?

Question

I've been on and off with this girl for 2 years now. Everytime I think we are getting closer she pushes me away. One minute she seems like she really cares about me and the next minute she doesn't. When I try to stay away she'll call, email or find someway to get me back into life. Of course once I'm back in she will start to push me away again. I'm confused and growing tired of the roller coaster. I think that I should just stay away no matter what she does, but I really do love her. I'm not sure if I want to let go completely. I just can't keep doing this relationship on her terms. Your opinions would help. Thanks

Answer 1

I didn't even read this whole story. When you said that you are off and on again I already know what to tell you. Whenever you break up with somebody just leave it alone. Don't keep trying to hold on to something that looks like it wasn't meant for you.

I was always told not to go back in time always go forward and that is exactly what you need to do with this person.

Move on. Life is too short to be unhappy and play games like this. Find someone tha makes u happy

Answer 2

My opinion is both your on or your off !i do not trust inswinging decrease backward and forward. So the genuine conserving is yet another rude yet genuine which means " both s--t or get off the pot!And if its lack of trust then the out come is get off the pot!because if relationship is continually being knocked down in spite of tries to make extra appropriate than i'd truly no longer have one in any respect. it really is like settling for 0.5 satisfied. If i'm continually going to be reminded of previous blunders and incorrect doings regardless of if no longer repeating than i'd truly be unmarried. it is also a lack of forgiveness because your being continually mocked and not at all worth it for me. If i'm able to't be dealt with awesome for all time by someone than i go with to be on my own , absolutely everyone who loves themselves sufficient gained't enable someone attack them with comments.

Answer 3

I am going through the exact same thing right now! My "boyfriend" constantly pushes me away like I don't matter, but tells me "I Love You". Its confusing for me, and I've repeatdly told him how I felt about it. At times he seems like he doesn't give a damn, but I Love him alot. Recently I've decided to move on with my life, because I can't take that "emotional-abuse". If she cared about you, she wouldn't push you away all the time. But just for the sake of it... try to comfort her, and let her know you Love her. If she still acts funny... then MOVE ON! Life is too short, to be unhappy.
Good Luck

Answer 4

on and off relationships can only end in divorce...why would you love someone that only wants you back because she knows she can't have you back..then she loses interest again so she pushes you away... if she really loved YOU then she would be in a serious relationship with you..sorry if i was too blunt. :-/

Answer 5

Let me first start off by mentioning that you sound like a very nice and caring guy.If she continuously does this then the first step you should take is:

1.Discuss this problem.
2.Give it another shot.
3.Two fails....move on.

Sorry about this situation,
LeXy. :)

Answer 6

You seem like a pretty brilliant guy =) Find you someone who will love you and appreciate you and enjoy being with you. You'll be much happier and you deserve happiness!
Good luck!

Answer 7

You already said you think you know what you should do...you need me to reassure you? I got your back bro' - go on now you can do it!

Answer 8

talk to her. tell her that you love her, but somethings need to change. then tell her what u told us

Answer 9

dont care her