what's wrong with me?? (read for details)?

Question

im usually a really happy person but 4 the past 3 or 4 weeks i've felt really sad (almost depressed) and it seems like all i want 2 do is cry even though i barely ever can.......im only 13 and the only other time i've ever felt this way was 2 years ago when my uncle died, my dog got hit by a car, and my pet duck got eaten by a bobcat.....what's wrong with me?? is there anything i can do 2 go back 2 the way i used 2 feel (without telling my aunt)?? i've even told my bf that i wanted 2 go die and he got really worried because he thought i ment it (which i kinda did) plz help me!!

and yes i know everything dies........that stuff happened 2 years ago and im over it now.......thats not why i feel like this

Answer 1

i know how you feel. i often get the urge to cry for no reason. maybe you have a mental disorder, like depression. i know i always pray when i am feeling down. you could try that too. also maybe excersizing would help relieve some stress and anxiety. but my best bet would be to tell your aunt how you have been feeling and see what she says and go from there. i really hope you feel better. just remember there is always someone who has felt the same way.

Answer 2

Your pet duck got eaten by a bobcat? Really? Well I recommend doing some origami, the Japanese art of folding. I'll try to set up a link here for basic instructions. I made a swan the other day and doing it soothes the soul, very relaxing.

Edit: I almost forgot. You need to cut the paper first so that it is 7 by 7 (inches).

Answer 3

Well, I'm not a christian (anymore) but the answer I gave my mother about my tattoo when she presented this same verse to me is that if my body is a temple, then I intend to decorate it and give it beauty and art much like the physical temples where people go to worship. Does that mean its a sin or not? No idea. But that's my reasoning behind it.

Answer 4

life sucks. face it. get used to it. GET OVER IT! I don't mean to be rude. it the point that i met and you should meet it to. everybody should. and the worst part isn't your duck getting eaten by a bobcat (though that is frickin' hilarious; again not to be too rude). the worst part is that everything you do in life is futile and that you are going to die!! what you need to do is just laugh. laugh at other peoples expense (like how when i laughed at your problems). your problems always seem better when you can laugh at someone else's. and i mean that as a serious answwer to your question. cuz i fealt like that for a while to. it has made me into the man i am today. i am happy now, even though people like me less. cuz i don't give a damn that they hate me, i'm gonna die no matter what they think!

oh and don't listen to the people who tell you that you need to see a doctor. shrinks are just ways to get you into their peacful little happy box! you are different and to them different is bad. they will beat, break, and reset you so they can drag you into the box. they've tried to do it to me several times and it still hasn't worked!

Answer 5

Listen you might be ill. A disease that if treated correctly, will restore peace and will to live again. Your brain is probably slower, and you can not figure out what is going on. A simple multivitamin will not fix the problem. You are probably experiencing a Major Depressive Episode. If you have any confidence in your parents, tell them to please take you to a professional that usually attends adolescents. A Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist.

Maybe antidepressive medications, are not for you, but alternatives with Ritalin, Adderal, and Lithium Carbonate, combined to psychotherapy will have you going well in 3 weeks.

Answer 6

welcome to puberty darling... we, women, are like that sometimes we feel like crying for no reason. When you feel like that just be alone and cry your guts out!!! it's okay! this will last until you turn 18 or 19... I'm going to turn 19 next month so it's almost over for me :) seriously, we all go through it and there is no explanation. Just try to think that whatever is going on will pass and don't let small things bother you. If you feel sad now then just go out with your friends and try not to think about it. But believe me... it WILL PASS, it's just a matter of time, you can make it better though just relax and don't worry. Good luck hun

Answer 7

Don't worry your a normal girl , probably approaching puberty, your body is raging with hormones causing all kinds of emotions, it'll get better then you will start having monthly mood cycles caused by menstruation, then post natal depression then when your approaching fifty you;ll start going thru 'the change' which will also affect your moods, all this is what makes women so interesting, cos guys will be trying to guess your mood, you don't know what it will be so what chance do us poor guys have?

Answer 8

u should um ask d adoctor or sumthing cuz long time ago i um couldnt sleep and i keep thinking 2 much then i wnet 2 da doctor since i had a appointment he said i should go on depressed medicine so u mayb should go on depressed medicine iono tho wats wrong

Answer 9

I hate to say it dear, but you could be clinically depressed. You need to talk with your guidance counselor, or just about anyone. You need help. Clinical depression is a curable medical disease. I had it. NO FUN. Seek help immideately.

Answer 10

im going through the same thing. im not sure what to do, but i just keep myself busy. itz not really working right now but do other ppl know what to do?