if you do never had a boyfriend does that mean your ugly? is something wrong with me?

Question

i have only had 1 boyfriend before! we lasted for 1 day! is that bad! is something wrong with me????

Answer 1

ur not ugly nothings wrong with u!!! be patient the right guy is just around the corner!!!

Answer 2

Well it depends on what age you are? If you are over 25 then maybe it's kinda weird. But if you are only 14 like me and have never had a boyfriend it's not weird and it definately does not mean you are ugly. I think that I am pretty and I bet you are too. Don't let it get to you like it has been getting to me.

PS: I would not count that boy you went out with for a day a boyfriend. A boyfriend should at least last a whole week.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with you. I haven't had that many boyfriend's either. But some day you will find a guy who likes you just as much as you like him. My shortest relationship was 3 days...my longest was so far the one im in right now. My and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, but its a long distance relationship, so its hard. So it would be better for you to find a boyfriend where you live so you dont go through so much pain of seeing other couples holding hands and kissing and you thinking you will never get to do that with your boyfriend. I think about that everyday, but i keep my hopes open. So right now i understand you dont have a boyfriend, well you just have to have an open mind and when a guy asks you out, think about it for a couple seconds, cause u really need to think if he will be the same as the other one. But just keep an opened mind and an open heart, thats what helped me get my boyfriend right now, maybe it will help you too.

Hope this helps and good luck with everything.
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Answer 4

there are many factors that could contribute to you not having a boyfriend. You might not be physically attracting to a boy. but in most cases that wont matter. you have to be able to communicate properly with a guy, if you have that you should be fine and hey no one is ugly, everyone is beautiful to someone so there are people out their that find you beautiful.

Answer 5

Don't be silly! Its not bad at all, and does not mean your ugly! You probably have just not had enough expirences around guys. Start off by trying to branch out to guys as friends and learn to feel comfortable around them. Whatever you do, don't be desperate for a boy, just be yourself and soon you will find yourself together with one!

Answer 6

Omgsh. of course not. That's perfectly normal.. && at a younger age [which i think you are] all the boyfriends are just short flings that wont really matter anymore in the future.
and hun you dont need a guy in your life to "feel" or "be" pretty. I'm pretty sure yu are a beautiful .person..
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Answer 7

I tell u something, a fact, and truth, guys always want slim, tall pretty fair skinned girls, belive me on this, take it from me as guy, even chubby average lookign guys get slim pretty girls these days so sadly average chubby dark girls GOT no chance, if a guy goes wiht a average girl its maybe he wants her for money. or hes desperate, or hes not good looking himself, but end of the day, guys will always respect and love girls who r pretty skinny, fair and strong minded, belive me in this, its human nature, i know ppl say beauty is inside but frankly thats for ppl who are nto good lookign themselves and make them feel better (lol), good looking ppl also have beauty inside so u see it works both ways, guys can be mates wiht average ugly girls but they wud never be intimate with them, u have to love the beauty on the outside aswell as the inside to have a relationship, sorry girl but dnt keep acting desperate, just get n arrnage marriage or sumfin, or ask famiy , freroinds to arrange ur marriage, cuz if u aitn good lookign then trust me as guy u will never find a guy, unless u wann contend with a chubby bald etc guy lol. harsh but true.

Answer 8

Ugly girls get boyfriends too. There may be something about your personality that drives them off.
There are many girls who subconsciously DON'T want a relationship (due to bad father relationships, bad experiences with boys as a child etc..), and when they begin to get into "relationship mode" with a boy they purposely try to sabotage it.
Ask your girl friends if there's anything you do around boys you don't usually do around them.

Answer 9

If you are under 25 then just wait. There is no rush. And no it does not mean you are ugly, everyone is beautiful in their own way.

Answer 10

Nothing wrong with it, be happy to be on your own. Find yourself while you are young, then when someone comes along that interests you you'll know whether or not they are what you are looking for.