does cryin over a girl make me less of a man?

Answer 1

no, but crying over spilled milk makes you less of a woman... so go spill some milk and cry because if your not a woman your a man!!

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Answer 2

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! I get sick of people trying to tell me otherwise. U can cry over whatever u want my friend. Don't let anyone determine what type of a man u r. Nothing can make u more/less of a man. NEVER SAY THAT ABOUT YOURSELF AGAIN. The only thing that make u and I men is the genetics and since we can't change that we can't become more/less man (or woman). Behaving in a certain way, dressing in a certain way, talking in a certain way doesn't represent whether u r a man or woman. Those r societies brain washing techniques. It's like saying "women r supposed to cook/clean for men" or "men r supposed to hold doors/pull out chairs for women." It just doesn't have any real support. If u feel like crying then damn it go ahead and cry my man.

Answer 3

Heck no. It's perhaps more accurately a reflection of the depth of your feelings for the girl. Treating a girl/woman badly would make you less of a man. You may want to be selective about where and to whom you show your feelings, but that's only because not everybody is likely to understand your dilemma, and those that do are better suited to deal with your display of grief/forlorness. I think a better question would concern whether or not the girl is WORTH crying over.

Answer 4

Of course crying over a girl doesn't mean you are less of a man. You may have really loved her and got badly hurt. It's very normal for all people to cry especially if you really admired this person. You will just become stronger as a person, and trust me you will find the right woman.

Answer 5

No.

Lemme think....


Uh....

Nope, my mind hasn't changed. Its still "no".

Obviously you felt something deep for this girl. Physiologically, the body has a few different ways of dealing with grief. Crying is the most helpful and healthy of them. Let it out. Play some music that fits your mood. Punch something. Cry.

You'll thank yourself when you don't become an alchoholic, or drug addict, or develop ulcers.


Best of luck, my man. I've been there.

Answer 6

Not necessarily, if it is something dumb like a sports team loosing, then yes, that makes you less of a man (sorry, that was the only example I could think of), but if its something like yr mom died or something, then no, that definitely doesn't make you less of a man, because it shows her that you have feelings.

Answer 7

It means that you were attatched to her and letting her go hurts. Does that make you less of a man?

My personal opinion is that crying makes it easier to get over, but that might be just me.

Answer 8

waaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!

No, it means you are more of a man than most. I have seen some of the biggest and toughest men break down and cry in college psych classes over baggage from their childhood.

It means you are human and have feelings. Just don't cry over anything and everything. But sometimes you just have to cry. I suggest that you try praying when you do cry.

Answer 9

Na but no need in cryin' over spilled milk hell there's more fish in the sea if she loves you she'll be back but for now i'd move on

Answer 10

No! It just means your a sensitive guy. Like me I'll cry over a guy one day and the next day I'll be flirting with him. I think it makes you more of man because you have experienced your sensitive side most guys don't cry over girls because their too macho. But not other guys their much more sweet and girls like them more. Or at least I do. Hope this helped.