I have been dating with this man for about a month now. We used to get along with each other whenever where together. etc. But the thing is He always wants me to initiate things to do. It feels like its me need to chase him to have this relationship working.
2007-02-22 11:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by Corinthian1 vs 4-8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It makes them feel strong. More in charge,
2007-02-22 11:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he's a bit insecure and feels you might reject him if he initiates things. You've only been together a month so you're still getting to know what the other likes and doesn't, he may just be being cautious.
Alternatively, he might also be lazy. But either way, if it's something that's bothering you then mention it to him, just casually rather than as though you're upset or annoyed by it. You could also perhaps stop chasing and see if he eventually wakes up and comes to you to find out why you're not paying him any attention anymore.
2007-02-23 03:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkle80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you have only been seeing him a month, what do you mean 'used to get along?, in the first two days? Whats his history? has he been seen to be initiating things in past relationships? if so forget it he is using you. He is not interested. Blunt I know but thats the truth. Love is a two way lust, interest etc Forget him and find someone who chases you
2007-02-22 12:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Luke S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why Sheriff Rick Bradshaw vowed to start a federal task force to fight the growing Black women chasing white men gang problem in Palm Beach County.
2016-03-29 07:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let that man chase you! Its no fun and its boring if you do ALL the work. I suggest getting rid of him. I hate guys like that they seem SO clueless. Its so fun when a man chases you you can tease him and flirt with him to death.A man is SUPPOSED to chase you not the other way around.
2007-02-22 11:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are chasing nothing if you don`t like chasing, Get chased by someone who will, with up most respect and truth, why do you think he went of you, only reason I think we get bored easily and you think why? Bored not your fault ours.
Good Hunting
2007-02-22 12:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by dinaro5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he is young and wanting oo feel wanted!
Am i right or am I right?
Given time you both will know all about each other and you & he will know the time to chase as well as back off!
Good luck guys
2007-02-22 11:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It should be mutual, but I say most of the time you should be working and deciding together, not you making all the decisions, God Forbid you two get married...Have a nice lil' chat with him, if he don't like it, Buh Bye! You want someone who will work with you
2007-02-22 11:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds exactly like my boyfriend! It's called laziness. Next time he tries to leave it up to you,tell him you'd rather he makes the plans as you feel you doing it all the time is monopolizing things.
2007-02-22 22:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about feeling wanted. He thinks if you aren't interested enough in him to initiate things, you aren't really that interested at all.
2007-02-22 11:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Maestro1999 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋