I'm 14 and havn't gone all the way with a guy yet but have gone far enough for a little alarm to go of in my head! I love having someone hold me and all that but i don't want to endup in highschool pregnant!:( What should i do?
2007-02-22 11:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good thinking dont do it 14 is way too young
2007-02-22 11:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have been brought up to have high moral standards and that is nothing to be ashamed of. I admire you, in fact. I wish I could see a lot more answers here that reflect what you have.
I think you know what to do intuitively. The alarms are going off -- pay attention to them. God wired them into you for a reason. Talk to your parents, an adult friend, a youth minister, someone you can trust about how to deal with this, just do not give into them, or better yet, watch the situations you are floating towards and avoid them (like being alone with him, etc).
Whatever you do, don't sweep the matter under the rug -- take action now to guard your heart and learn from this episode.
Take care, and good luck to you.
2007-02-22 11:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being compassionate with a person you care for. (Holding hands, Hugging, Kissing, etc) But Sex is totally different. Its not just something to do, or "experience"... its serious. And it should only happen, when you are mature enough to know the full consequences. A lot of young teens, think Sex won't change their lives, but even if you don't get pregnant or get a disease... IT WILL AFFECT YOU! I lost my virginity when I was 15 years old. It was the worst day of my life. I never planned for it to happen, but my EX-boyfriend did! Please keep yourself and resist from any sexual contact. Your body is your temple!
2007-02-22 11:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question if you're ready... you're not. Plain and simple. Enjoy the little things like holding hands and cuddling... as you get older you may get to have those less and less and will truly miss it.
2007-02-22 11:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you're ready, then you're not. You're only 14 -- there's a very good chance that you'll regret it later if you make a bad choice about such an issue.
2007-02-22 11:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey dont worry, i would wait....i mean unless you love him....i love my guy..but im waiting....wait for about 2 more years or 1 or until your 15 lol
hope i helped
2007-02-22 11:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriella R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed
2007-02-22 11:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then quit doing things you are not comfortable doing.
2007-02-22 11:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USE PROTECTION AND HAVE FUN YOUR ONLY YOUNG ONCE
EVENTUALLY YOUR BOOTY IS GONNA DROP AND NOBODY WILL LIKE YOU
2007-02-22 11:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
you are disgusting
2007-02-22 11:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋