So,,, My borfriend was sent to rennesance (A school beside mine for trouble makers) because he recieved another referall today.
He never told me that he couldnt get another.
This girl started saying:
"How could you not have known this? I mean your dating him for crying out loud! Do you not talk to him or something?! God your such a horrible girlfriend!"
I always talk to him.... We just have never talked about that....
What do you think??
2007-02-22 11:38:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably didn't tell you because he was embarassed.
2007-02-22 11:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not bad. Maybe you should have told that girl that you two find much more interesting things to talk about with each other. You can't possible know every little tiny thing about your boyfriend...even when people are together for years and years, they still don't know everything. Relax, and don't let it bother you...she's probably just trying to make you feel bad. If it's no big deal with you and your boyfriend, then don't worry about everyone else.
2007-02-22 11:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are forgetting the bigger picture. Why do you date? To eventually find a suitable mate to marry and have kids with. Do you really want a trouble maker? A guy that doesn't respect authority. Believe me, they make lousy husbands and even worse fathers. Break up. He has shown you he is unworthy of a life with you. Way too many girls get a lousy guy and waste the rest of their lives trying to "fix" him. Forget it. Move on.
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2007-02-22 11:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever 'this girl' is, ignore her, she's no friend of yours and sounds like a gossip. What you and your boyfriend do or don't talk about is strictly your and his business.
It's understandable that you two could only talk about the things on your minds . . . so if boyfriend didn't want to talk about, or reveal, his referrals, that's something you can bring up later. Maybe he really didn't care, maybe he felt ashamed, whatever, it didn't come up and that's that.
I'd like to have a talk with that girl about what she thinks defines a good relationship and who's playing what roles in that . . .
Keep your spirits up, but ignore goofs like that, she's a troublemaker.
2007-02-22 11:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this girl needs to stop being so mean and in my option taking her own personal anger and frustration out on you. In every relationship there is gonna be something that each one doesnt know about the other and theres nothing wrong with that. If you guys knew everything about each other thatd be kinda boring dont you think. Listen if you think that your a good girlfriend and he thinks you are too and you care about him still despite this whole thing that who cares what she says, its what you think that really matters remember.
2007-02-22 11:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend was ashamed of himself, and that's why he never shared it with you. If a married man can have an affair while he works a 12 hour a day job and has a wife and kids at home and keep it a secret, its not beyond anyone's ability to keep something from their significant other.
Quit beating yourself up over this. You're worth too much to do that to yourself.
2007-02-22 11:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sparxmith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that girl just wants to make you feel bad. don't worry about it. one of my friends was expelled from her first high school and has so far been at 3, and i didn't know that until about 5 or 6 months after i met her. this doesn't mean i'm a bad friend, it just means the subject never came up. don't worry about it.
2007-02-22 11:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by stephieSD 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Problem one: BF -He did not tell you. You are not a mind reader.
Problem two: GF- She is critical and non-supportive. You still want her ?
Problem three: BF - Do you really want a BF who must go to a trouble maker school? The correct answer should be, No.
2007-02-22 11:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are a bad girlfriend. It's not like your boyfriend is gonna brag about that kinda stuff. He's probably ashamed of himself. Whoever talks to you like that, shrug those haters off your shoulders! lol
2007-02-22 11:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you son't communicate with him about the things that go on in your lives away from wach other how can you really have a long lasting relationship. the both of you need to pay more attention to each other or it won't matter anyway you won't be together.
2007-02-22 11:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know exactly what possison your in but what i would do is sit down with one of my really good friends and get some advice! Hope every thing turns out ok!
Good luck
2007-02-22 11:42:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋