My boyfriend and I could pratically be twins, we have gone through the same things in life, where I'm weak he's strong and vice versa. For the first time I don't feel all infatuated I feel so content and peaceful. We have so many things in common....I mean we even share the same birthday!!! I just really feel like he's the one, am I crazy or what?
2007-02-22 11:36:49 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you found a keeper there honey. i am in the same situation... except for the birthday thing. i hope everything works out for you two.
2007-02-22 11:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to any of the fouls that are resental of there past realtions ships or been hurt by others an lost sight of what love is an dont think it excist there unfortunate you get one life time to find the one you belong with, believe in a soul mate an have a genoune passion to find one an with a little patience it will come. When it is love you will doubt it will work out but not doubt that its true. we always question were love will take us but we cant doubt it if its real. soul mates are real an your lucky if hes the one but only you an him truly know that!
2007-02-22 19:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by ana a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in soulmates, and though you have alot in common, that could prove over the years to be rather boring and annoying.
Every couple I have known with similar signs or bdays end up being sick of one another over time.
That is not to say it will happen to you, but you do need to spend at least 3-5 years with someone regularly before you marry them.
There are all sorts of things that pop up after 5 years of being together.
He could very well be a soulmate, but not necessarily one you are to have a romantic relationship with.
2007-02-22 19:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its bull, its lust, pshycally attraction, etc, thats all, there is no such thing as mates, if ppl want to gain sumfif they start acting like ya best mates, ppl go der own way eventually, one day a mate can be uyr mate da next dey can be ur ememy, thats an anceint saying, and has element of truth, as far as sex is concerned, all couples do and practice sex the same way, dnt need to be Enistein to figure that one out. (lol)
2007-02-22 19:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in love, I am happy you met someone who completes you. For me there is a soul-mate for every season in our lives. Wither it be a spouse, friend, family member, and so on.
One of my brothers even though we talk only a few times a year, knows when something is wrong with me, my husband and I share a though childhood and complete each other in the lack of a stable upbringing, and the biggest part is my little angel (my daughter) for being only seven, she knows when I need a hug or her little kisses, she sometimes know when I need to hear her voice tell me how beautiful I am.
2007-02-22 19:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your relationship with your boyfriend is wonderful, but I don't think having everything in common makes you all soul mates. Peoples likes and dislikes change from one minute to the next, therefore I am concerned that if anything changed, your feelings would change. I don't think you're crazy, just naive.
2007-02-22 19:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not particularly, but I do believe in the absolute power of oral sex. I feel that when I am with my g/f. wife, co-worker, whatever that there is a special connection when I bang them on top of the Canon copier and the sounds of our coupling while I collate a 600-page manuscript is enough to make me want to burst into existential tears.
2007-02-22 19:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all, this is a good thing. it means that you and him really know about each other. you are good for each other and you really need each other. you fit together perfectly, like pieces of a puzzle. if you really feel content with him, like you couldn't do better, not that i'm saying he isn't the best, then he really might be the one. if you're can't descirbe the feelings you have for him then you realy do love him. Love is a feeling you can't describe, you just know and if you know then you really do love him.
i wish you both luck.
2007-02-22 19:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really. But love can be like the dimmest star that you can only see on the darkest night or it can be like a blinding sun. To find big love is very lucky.
2007-02-22 19:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. We don't have soul mates until we die. Sorry. We just have people that we meet and live our lives with until we die. You didn't mention that you loved him? Having things in common is one thing but loving someone is another. But good for you in finding someone. Me and my husband share alot together too but we're not soul mates.
2007-02-22 19:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋