well,I saw her in a party, she was one of my friends friend, from the first sight I think I like her, I initiated the relation, email, off-line notes, SMS sometimes, still not too much even one per week, and she was open to all, she come to my house one time, another week we go to three days camping with group of friends, at the next day I tell her I love her, and in a week or two she was gone. I think I have advanced too fast, but is there anything I can do now?
2007-02-22 11:36:40 · 3 answers · asked by M a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you did move too fast, and that scared her away. Think about it from her point of view? She meets this guy,a very short time ago, and without adequate time to even get to know each other, this guy is professing his Love. You can not truly expect someone to feel comfortable when going from 0 to 60 in such a limited amount of quality time together. You started out in the beginning okay, but somehow, you skipped right over the middle(very crucial part) of the relationship, right to the end. You need to get to know someone BEFORE you say I love You. To say those words, should be at a point in a couples growing relationship, when they are truly meaningful. Those words are misused, and said too often. When someone says "I love you" they should be said in the true sense of their meaning. Next time, get to know a girl, and," proceed with caution!!!!!"
2007-03-02 06:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot "restart" a relationship by TRYING to restart it. The reason she disappeared to begin with is because you were too needy. By pursuing her you are validating her feelings about you.
The only chance you have is to ignore her and have fun by yourself. Forget about her, maybe get a new girlfriend or something, and eventually she will see that she was missing out and had the wrong impression about you and come crawling back.
Don't give her your power. If you want a woman, then act like a man.
2007-02-22 19:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by dmlk2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh... no.
you scared her off. i mean, i think i'm the bomb, but if you tell me you love me in 2 week, 2 months, hell under a year, i'm getting away from you. i'm thinking you're a stalker, or emotionally challenged.
2007-02-22 19:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by wickedladyredd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋