I am dating a guy that is younger than me by 2 years and I think he's not mature enough to know how to answer my questions with a little more tact. He's really straight forward and doesn't pull any punches. He also isn't afraid to mention when someone is "hot" or "banging" or "smoking" at that. Here I am; 27 years old, divorced, 2 kids (both from ex husband), weighing in at about 255 pounds, and not "ugly" but I don't concider myself "smoking hot" either. How should I feel when he makes a comment towards another female?
2007-02-22 11:27:11 · 4 answers · asked by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not straightforward. That's rude.
You're 27. Come on! I'm 28 and I don't have a boyfriend and I wouldn't date a guy like that. I know I have more time for finding somebody decent, and if not, I'm not gonna waste what time I have on a jacka ss like him.
He's not mature enough. He mentions other people in a crude way. He doesn't pay attention to only you.
Puh-leeze.
You know what you need to do.
2007-02-22 11:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you arent happy, then dont settle. He wont change, he is younger than you in years and also maturity. Remember, you have been married and have kids, he's had neither. I dont think making comment to him about it will change much at all.
2007-02-22 11:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it is stupid to get jealous over that **it. It will only stress you out for no reason. It is human nature to look and notice attractive people. As for his past relationships/ one nighters. What is past is past, you cant change it now so don't dwell on it. He is with you now that is what is important
2007-02-22 11:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a bit of a twit. But at 255lbs, and two kids, maybe you cant be too picky.
2007-02-22 11:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋