Im going insane.Until about 3 weeks ago,i was in an awesome 8 month relationship.We comunicated well,and loved eachother.It almost seemed perfect.Early on, she told me how she has commitment problems and that her past boyfriends hadnt worked out for her because she got scared and bailed out. So 3 weeks ago, out of the blue she tells me that shes having second thoughts about our relationship... and that she wanted to take a break. She told me that i was different out of all her 5 relationships she had been in. At first i was shocked, because it was all normal, then out of the blue she wants a break. The past 3 weeks have been crazy for me.She tells me she loves me,then the next day... doesnt even want to be friends.About 2 days ago,she gave me a flower and told me she missed me so much, we kissed, and i thought we were back. But the next day, she did the same thing. Shes been hanging out with this jake kid for a while now. But she says nothings happened. just need opinions about this...
2007-02-22 11:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by DK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She'd probably want you back eventually, but only for some wild fling and then move on to other things.
I would try to find someone else out there a little more stable, if I were you. No one deserves this much drama...
2007-02-22 11:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she did warn you she had commitment problems. She obviously felt the relationship was getting more serious than she could handle, so she bailed. She would like to be with you, but issues are keeping her from following through on it.
She's going to repeat this pattern her whole life until she deals with the root of the problem. You can urge her to seek therapy and talk it out, but otherwise just move on.
2007-02-22 11:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read carefully my man......You MUST leave her even if it hurts.Right now you can't even be friends with her because you still love her.After a little while you'll be able to just be her friend.You MUST sever all relations with her now.She has serious issues and she IS NOT ready for commitment.Good luck.
2007-02-22 11:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you for a fool. Leave her crazy a** alone to find out what she wants.
2007-02-22 11:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jump the jake guy and get your girl back
2007-02-22 11:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by blober85 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just walk away...
she has way too much baggage for you honey.
2007-02-22 11:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by wickedladyredd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DITCH THIS, DUDE!!!
SHE'S playing you.
HA!!, blober85 is hilarious
2007-02-22 11:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by What gives? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋