My sister is getting married in May! We are all very excited! Neither of us get along with our father and therefore are not allowed to see our younger sisters. My sister (the one getting married) would love to have our little sisters in the wedding! How can we get to them without our dad intervining? My dad also now wants to walk my sister down the aisle! He is not even invited to the wedding...a uncle who we both consider a father figure is walking her down. Any suggestions on how to keep our dad away from the wedding!
2007-02-22 11:21:12 · 3 answers · asked by princess45cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well considering the fact that you say your dad wants to walk her down the aisle, and is already wanting to be involved. I don't think it would be hard to have your sisters. If he wanted to be totally uninvolved, another story, but he isn't. Not sure why this is such a hard one to figure out.
2007-02-22 11:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kass 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you don't get along with him, why does he care about walking her down the aisle. Particularly if he doesn't want you to see your younger sisters.
I expect that if your dad doesn't come to the wedding, then chances are your sisters will not be allowed either.
Explain to your father that you'd like for him to come to the wedding on the condition that he can be respectful to you and your sister and that you'd like for the girls to be involved since you love them.
Make sure that you alert some larger male members of your wedding that if by chance he is disruptful or disrespectful that they are responsible for escorting him out. You can make that clear to your Dad as well, that he will be asked to leave if he can't play nice.
Otherwise, if he's not invited, then you'll have no luck getting your sisters participation.
2007-02-23 01:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that because he refuses to let you and your sister have anything to do with your younger sisters that he is not allowed to come to the wedding unless you let them be a part of it. Also tell him that HE is NOT going to be walking her down the aisle. It sounds like he is a poor excuse for a father. It's a big difference between someone being a father and being a "Daddy".
2007-02-22 19:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋