I really like this one dude he's older than me he was telling me how he has feelings for me and i feel the same about him. We talked on the phone for a while now. But the thing is were not dating yet but he calls me baby even tho were not in a relationship but he borrows my money?? so what does that mean?? please help
2007-02-22 11:14:59 · 23 answers · asked by LiTo_OnE06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is not using you- he should be. I need a loan BTW. A normal guy, and by this I mean someone who is not so low in testosterone and self-esteem that he has to beg off his girl, will not act this way. Get the loser to pay you back with interest, buy a high-powered pellet gun and disable his left butt-cheek; then sign a restraining order.
I call you baby all the time and you never loan me cash- what gives??
He is using you and not a nice person not unlike myself where I am wanted in 12 States for extortion by using phrase like "Hey, how you doin'?" I swear, it is like an ATM.
Ciao!
2007-02-22 11:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means that he is older and wiser than you and he know some of the tricks of the trade you haven't experienced yet. Plus if he's an older man, he knows the right thing to do is treat a woman like a woman, not borrow money from her like she is your mom. if you want the truth then take heed: he is using you for your money, and believe when you start crying broke you will also be crying over a broken heart cause he will gone in the wind (along with all his i.o.u's.)
2007-02-22 11:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by hippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing a game with you and stringing you on for the fun to let him borrow your cash and see how much he can get out of you and probably take his girlfriend out with the money until you catch on! Let him know you are expecting him to repay you and hope one day he will treat you to dinner or something for you being so kind. See how he feels about that, and how friendly he is when you stop lending him the money I bet he'll be calling you sweetness, honey, baby and all kinds of other special names then.
2007-02-22 11:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He could be using you but the question is, why would you lend him money in the first place? He may be making a convenience of you and taking advantage if he knows you like him. He's probably calling you 'baby' because that's what he thinks you want to hear. Get your money back, and don't lend him any in future. You will soon know whether he is still interested.
2007-02-22 11:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is using you. By the way, how does he get the money from you when you just talk on the phone, and what the hell does someone calling you "baby" have to do with being a friend/boyfriend or whatever? It is a simple word, maybe he forgot your real name, that would suck, but hey, he is your friend cuz you give him money, right?
2007-02-22 11:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because he calls you baby doesnt really mean anything. Does he borrow your money or do you give him money? if theres ever been a time he hasnt paid you back? if there has been more than 1 time he hasnt paid u back then boo he is using you... or maybe he just likes you as a friend.
2007-02-22 11:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by THICKNESS 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What kind of money is he borrowing? For what? How much? That part sound weird!! If you too like each other, then it's cool. Just be careful about him borrowing money.
2007-02-22 11:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does he pay you back if not make distance and remind him on the meaning of Borrow as in Loan.
2007-02-22 11:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be borrowing money from you. Don't give him any money, and ask for repayment of the money he has already borrowed. You will then find out whether he is using you.
2007-02-22 11:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Hypatia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BORROWS MY MONEY= USING ME!!!!!
Calling you "baby" and you guys are STILL not in a relationship??
C'mon--get the picture??
2007-02-22 11:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋