I lost my mom two weeks ago today we buried her on thursday , friday the next day my son was nearly killed by a drunk drive the again on saturday my daughter miscarried i know i have reasons for living but i am lost and can not find myself can;t eat or sleep just function as life says so and no i do not want to hurt myself i want to find myself again please don;t say time heals i know that but it means nothing to me right now thanks for listening
2007-02-22 11:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by angelwings6420 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
When I lost my husband I found myself lost
For more than a year, I was in a fog
It was so bad, my sister consider taking my child
Thinks got better
Life gets better, you just have to hang in there
I been on antidepressant for a while, they work
I also help someone, just to talk to
Good luck
Take care of yourself, Life gets better
2007-02-22 12:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing! Bless your heart! I think that you should go to a professional, because this is nothing that we answerers can heal with our kind words. You must be in terrible pain. Life will change for the better, never forget that.
Talking about it really helps. And keeping a journal/diary. Reading over your feelings may help you feel better. But a professional is best.
Best of luck!
2007-02-22 19:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Mischa S. ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, they say trouble comes in threes, so it looks like you have had your set of three bad things.
There's a little bit of hope for you.
You start feeling better, but it does take time.
Perhaps you could talk to your doctor about getting some kind of counselling to help you through this uneasy time.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and hope that you find your way back to the light soon.
2007-02-22 19:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, im sorry for your losses. But, things WILL get better. Look on the brightside here. Its the cycle of life with your mother, though its tough, you need to be strong and continue. Your son isnt dead and maybe your daughters pregnancy wasnt meant to be. My favorite advise ive recieved when things suck is "you can get busy dying or get busy living" Good luck. Keep your chin up.
2007-02-22 19:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what I could say that could relieve your pain... A mother is someone so important so vital in life.... I don't know what would I the day that I lose my mom... Just focus on the future, your children and the legacy that she left in your life. Hope you feel better soon.
2007-02-22 19:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by MamyLaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss. i also hope your son is ok. Maybe you could find a center you can donate your time at wheather its a daycare or elderly home, you may find comfort in being around others. or a greif counsling center talking to others that have lost loved one as well.
2007-02-22 19:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by mj14_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for your loss things will get better. i agree ive heard things come in 3s so just relax calm down and i know it may be hard but try to think a=of all the things you have in your life. your son and daughter need you right now. and as weak as you may be they need someone strong right now. god bless and i pray for you
2007-02-22 19:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass!!!
Bad things happen in 3s... so all the bad stuff is over now. Give yourself time to grieve... grieve with your family...
Sorry for your pain.
2007-02-22 19:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋