How can you tell if your really in love? I need to know!!!?

Answer 1

If you find $100 would the first thing that comes to your mind be to

A)buy something for yourself
B)Save it
C) take your honey our or buy him/her something

If the answer is A) you are jaded.
If the answer is B) you are smart.
If the answer is C) you are in love.

Answer 2

By not asking this question, when you are in love you just know it and you don't need to ask anyone if it is love or anything else you just know because it's all you can think of.

Answer 3

too be in love well that is a question, and i as a man who at the age of thirty three has finally been granted with this rare occurance that has pounced up and hit me love is a commercialized product around this crazy world seen within cards spoke openly within the end of talks etc but my experience of love is a crazy and unknown chapter of my life to constantly think about the women of my dreams and to genuine belief that my heart beats within this lady to breath air different to as it is to live within two spirits as one



OK enough of that.... I am the woman who he is on about..... For me Love is knowing the first time you ever set eyes on someone, that you have an overwhelming need to be near them... Love is to feel the beat in the other persons heart when you are making love..... Love is to have a fear of the other person dying and leaving you in this shitty world without them..... Love is being able to tell the man of your dreams all your hangups about your body within the first week of meeting them..... Love is just knowing that you have met your soulmate and a feeling of completeness and fluffiness that you have never ever experienced in your whole life before...... Love for me... Is wanting to get married when I have never ever felt that about anyone in 34 years ever before..... (I really hope you get some understanding of what love is... although I reckon what I have found is pretty damned rare!!!!)

Answer 4

Love gets confused with passion and chemistry all the time. Love isn't a feeling of wanting to have sex with someone, that's a biological reaction to stimulation.

We are human animals first. Our biology tells us we need to reproduce. That's why it's possible to be attracted to many, many people. Many people rely on biology and their animal nature and are left with many lovers and potentially many children. But as civilized animals we have to intellectualize the process. We have to be aware of our biology and what drives it. We have to be aware our bodies will have us in bed without love.

We have to think in terms of what our intellects need rather than our bodies. Satisfying our moral/emotional/respect needs will find us what we need for life and love. The physical will come when we have filled our life with compatibility rather than just sex.

Love isn't in the body, it's in the head. When people love each other they usually have shared a lot of time together and many, many shared experiences.

People that love each other are kind and supportive. People who love each other don't lie to each other. People who love each other can share time together and be really happy and also be apart and be really happy. People who love each other enhance each other's lives, they don't add drama and hurt to each other's lives. People who love each other don't get jealous of each other for silly reasons. People who love each other act more like friends than crazy drama couples. People who love each other don't put each other down or manipulate each other to get something. People who love each other honor their commitments to each other and realize the other person is more important than they are. People who love each other can accept flaws of their partner and don't try to change them. They accept the person as is and they realize they aren't perfect. People who love each other don't borrow large sums of money and then are mean to the bank.

I've given plenty of examples but only time and actions can prove love. Having physical attraction isn't love. The reason I know this is because if that were the case I would have loved thousands of people in my life. You know this as an adult but it's not so easy to understand when you are young.

We mistake the yearning for another as love. But all people make spiritual connections with others based on the biology of their nature. Some are short lived (the first fight) and some endure time. The ones that endure time are the closest to love. The ones that leave the person feeling good about themselves, the other person and the union are closest to love.

Answer 5

Do you get that tingling feeling when you are around him? Do you forget what to say? Or are you comfortable around him? If you have sometimes when you think to yourself... "am I making a complete fool of myself?" then you might just be in love. Just make sure you really want to risk a friendship with him, if you would, then you just might be in love.

Answer 6

1. try going out on a date with another person and see if all u could think of is that special someone. if not then ur not in love
2. how old r u. if ur around 17 or less tahn ur ropbably in "lust" not love
3. if u cant go a day with out seeing or hearing their voice
4. all u do is think of him/her
5. ur very comfortable around him/her

Answer 7

If you need to ask, you're not in love. It's that simple.

Answer 8

When you see you person you think you're in love with, your stomach lurches with excitement, when they talk to you, you can't think straight, and when they look at you, you feel faint.

Answer 9

-----you can;t sleep---you can;t stop thinking about him-----your body doesn;t react the same --you have itches in places you didn;t know you had ---u think life will not continue if your not with him----and all those other stupid things you hear about------if your in love you will know it----you want have to ask.-------------

Answer 10

Depends on how old you are and your level of maturaty.