My boyfriend and I are going on 4 months now, I know... its not that long, and everything is really great other then Im finding that things are getting to be a little bit boring, any ideas?
2007-02-22 10:47:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on trips together. Road trips, cruises, vacations. People find out a lot about each other when they are traveling together. Go to new and exciting places and have sex there! You'll make memories and learn about one another.
2007-02-22 10:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own personal experience, if it's beginning to be "routine" and boring it might be time to throw in the towel. 4 months????? That's not much time at all. I've been with my bf for a little over 2 years and NOTHING we do is boring. He is constantly making me laugh, says the stupidest things and he acts like a total moron sometimes. We go shopping together, always dine out, the movies, and anything else that's fun. How do you get bored after 4 months???? Is he just a boring person?
Maybe try doing more things together. If that doesn't help then read line one in this answer : ) Yes, yes,,I know that sucks.
2007-02-22 18:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surprise him by either a little romantic trip for the weekend or go to a upscale "Gentleman's Club" if your into that, men are. I have been happily married for over 6 years and we are very spontaneous I think that's what keeps us so happy and excited, just let your hair down and do something he would never expect. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 18:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lildebbysnackz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boring in the relationship in general? Or, boring in the bedroom? You question lacks too much substance for me to give an answer. But, if its only been 4 months and the newness has wore off that soon it doesn't look good.
2007-02-22 18:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out of the routine. If you normally go out on saturdays, skip saturdays and go out on a thursday. Stay in on saturday. Take a trip, do something you've never done before. if you're unable to take a trip. Rent a luxury hotel room for a weekend, it will feel like a vacation.
2007-02-22 18:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
play the song Escape by Jimmy Buffet
2007-02-22 18:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by theguywith10toes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get surprise tickets to a show or a nice restaurant
2007-02-22 18:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tryed wipes and handcuffs? I would have to say that or try to learn what he really wants and tell him your fantasy
2007-02-22 18:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Blake B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try using crushed ice in your mouth while you please him orally
try screaming his name when you come. Infact learn to facilitate your orgasm manipulate him by squeezing him as hard as you can during your orgasm and ask him afterward if he liked it and I guarantee his tail will be wagging.
2007-02-22 19:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not expect him to do all the work if you want something you have to do as well!
2007-02-22 18:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by esmccann2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋