Okay I love being with my boyfriend and giving him oral pleasure...I He loves it and well he doesn't kiss me after...it actually pisses me off!!!
Guys why is it a problem?
2007-02-22 10:44:34 · 22 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's good enough for you, it should be good enough for him! Don't let him get away with it!
2007-02-22 11:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok to be honest from a guys perspective.. Something is wrong with him. Not all guys have a problem with kissing a girl after she helps him out. it is the same as a girl kissing a guy after he is down there using his tongue to help you out. I would say find a guy that will not mind. Always remember there is always someone out there that will do what he won't ;)
2007-02-22 18:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by James P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a big deal, I kiss my girl all the time after she pleases me and she kisses me after I please her. I can tell you that comfort comes with sexual maturity and experience. As we have more experiences we realize what is sensual/sexual and a turn on. Once we understand how much of a turn on sensual acts, like kissing after pleasure can be, we then tend to do them. I would say keep trying and hopefully he will kiss back, otherwise he will never understand what he is missing and how turned on you really are. Explain to him how upset you are and how much more it would turn you on if he did.
2007-02-22 18:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chris S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does that because he does not want the taste in his mouth he considers it to be disgusting like most men and they consider it as being closely linked to homosexuality if they kiss their girlfriend after oral pleasure especially if he had discharged in her mouth.
2007-02-22 18:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was completely accepting of you, he would kiss you afterwards. It shows complete acceptance, and if that's what you're looking for, then don't change your stance about it. Some guys find it gross, but I don't know, if you're in the heat of the moment, he should do it without even asking or wondering about it.
2007-02-22 18:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because it seems to him like he is pretty much sucking on his own ____ if he kisses you after you give him "oral pleasures"
2007-02-22 18:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by smaug8133 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are weird, thinking they don't want to taste (thru kissing) their own wiener. Don't take it personally, he's probably a little immature. I'm available if you want a new bf.
2007-02-22 18:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels like kissing you is almost like if he went down on himself and it might be more of a turn off for him...just my opinion.
2007-02-22 18:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by juanachiquita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....oral is 'unclean' to some guys. So they like it, but still think it's 'wrong'. And they sure don't want to kiss your now 'unclean mouth'.
Oh, and after you do it.....your kiss will taste a bit like him. And no guy wants to taste that. Yuck.
2007-02-22 18:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a stupid azz. I have no problem kissing my gf after she performs oral on me ;)
2007-02-22 18:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by C L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he must be an jerk because whenevewr my gf gives me oral or swallow i always end up giving her a kiss.even after we do it i always end up my kiss.come over here and i will kiss you.
2007-02-22 19:30:02 · answer #11 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋