when i talk to anyone i mostly dont know what to talk about and i let the other person do the talking which they get bored of me what shall i do?
2007-02-22 10:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, sunshine, everyone prefers a good listener to a good talker. Without a listener, the talker is wasting his time. Just chip in now and again, express an opinion on what you know or feel strongly about. And try asking for opinions - on anything. People love to express opinions.
I even say things I know nothing about, or about which I have little knowledge - just to get people talking. Then argue against my beliefs.
But it gets people talking!
2007-02-22 11:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bunts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk a bit about yourself, be confident in what u a saying but also suttle. not over the top. be friendly, easy going come across as an easy person to talk to. i know there are some people in the world that just click with you and some don't. but always make a few jokes to do with the subject you may be talking about!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 18:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply need to make great eye contact, ask a few questions, and look interested. If you can do that you will be surprised at how they perceive you and you will find that you are talking more as well.
2007-02-22 18:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tina L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people love talking about themselves so ask them questions in turn they should ask u questions, this makes conversation. i used to be like u but now i don't worry about what they think of me any new friend is a bonus but you need to look at the family and friends you already have. good luck x
2007-02-22 19:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by squawinpants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions! Be willing to share yourself with people. I cannot believe you are dull and boring at all. do not be afraid to let people see who you are. You are already thoughtful and caring and I bet interesting as well.
2007-02-22 19:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by TOM K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to inform yourself about sports, current events, etc. Doesn't have to be a lot, just enough to enable you to carry on a conversation.
2007-02-22 18:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk about things that interest you
2007-02-22 18:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by sanasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job where you need to talk to get by, this will help your confidence
2007-02-22 18:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by mikeodonagh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to say is as important as what anyone else has to say take care read alot that is good.
2007-02-22 18:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋