ok i'm hanging out with my boyfriend tomarrow night....i'm "expecting" intercourse from him, him and i havn't done it yet before...if he doesn't give me intercourse, would it be wrong and selfish of me to get mad for him not giving me intercourse, or would it be wrong and selfish if i got depressed about him not giving it to me?
2007-02-22 10:43:06 · 18 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say this......
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend of a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-02-22 10:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it would be wrong for you to get mad or depress over something like that. If you haven't had it yet, you are probably too young anyway. Having a boyfriend does not always mean you have to have intercourse. First of all you need to think of the consequences of your actions such as unwanted pregnancy, stds and HIV. HIV which is for life as well has Genital Herpes. So take your time and enjoy being young and having someone to spend time with.
2007-02-22 10:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be wrong....he may not be ready to do that! How would you like it if it was the other way around? You sound too young to be worrying about someone "giving" you intercourse anyway.
2007-02-22 10:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Petrushka's Ghost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things you need to concider is he a virgin is he saveing his self for marriage if that is the case no you shouldent be mad or upset you should be happy after all if your the one he marrys you can train him the way you want and if hes not a virgin and he dosent have sex with you then he may still feel uncomfortable
about himself around you maybe hes a sensative guy and too shy to make the first move try talking before you make your move let him know your ready
2007-02-22 10:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by family fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way too young to be thinking of actual intercourse!
2007-02-22 11:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone for a while and give the guy a break and he is just thinking of you he dose not want to use you he is beeing a ture gentelman be thankfull for that .
2007-02-22 10:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout that cause you need to wait cause if he doesnt give you intercourse than he may not be ready. You need to respect what he wants to do
2007-02-22 10:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by nicaspiderman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it and he is shy your gonna have to tell him communication is a wonderful thing sometimes. I was told that yes it is wrong to get mad if you are trying to get some and you get denied. it's happened to me a couple of times.
2007-02-22 10:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not expecting you to want it. Or maybe he's not ready yet. Don't know, just put the moves on him and see where it leads. But you shouldn't get "mad" if he doesn't do it.
2007-02-22 10:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a girl's perspective, I think it shows more maturity to wait in a relationship. It proves what the relationship is made of....
2007-02-22 10:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by jigga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋