2007-02-22 10:30:51 · 22 answers · asked by sanasa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It couldn't happen cause I'd never be someone gf if they lived with their ex.
2007-02-22 10:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends why he's still living with his ex but I would definately sit down and talk to him about how it made me feel. Try not to get all upset as men don't respond well to that and tend to just decide you're being an irrational female and stop listening...but if you explain it makes you uncomfortable, maybe you can find a solution together.
One of my housemates was in a similar situation in which the man in question was there for his children but they worked it out so it is possible.
2007-02-22 10:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkle80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!
No way. Dump him. I don't care if I had to sleep in my car or on a friend's couch. I'd be out of there. And not starting a relationship until I was. Totally disrespectful.
He says she's his ex. Does she know that?
If he was a nice guy, he wouldn't put you in that situation of having to wonder whether he's still getting it on with his ex. Trust must be earned... He doesn't get any by doing this.
Dump the Turd and flush.
A~
2007-02-22 10:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must ne hard to deal with. Does he just live with only his ex or is it like a house share?? I dont really know your circumstances, but if you could reply, how long were they together? Are they still friends???? If he is in a situation where he cannot help but still be living with her, i.e. financial reasons it will be harder to sort out. Maybe you should talk to him about it and explain to him how you feel about the situation. Good luck with it all.
2007-02-22 10:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to live with my ex-boyfriend for a while after we broke up. For my current boyfriend at the time, I think it bothered him. But its not like me and my ex did anything. As long as their relationship is strickly platonic or even a convienient housing situation as it was with me and my ex, then don't worry about it.
2007-02-22 10:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now and save yourself the heartbreak. I can guarantee you that wether he is being true to you right now there will be a point that they're both home alone just the two of them and he will cheat on you. He may not be a horrible guy or even mean to but when you're that close with someone that you were once sleeping with sometimes they turn back to that comfort. He either needs to get away from her or you need to get away from him
2007-02-22 10:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Heather Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd be my Ex. Theres no way I would put up with that! That's terrible. Only a sign of things to come my friend, get out while you still can!
2007-02-22 10:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by pinkytickle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
she ain't his ex if he is still living with her
i have been in a similar situation and his ex tried to end her life as she sort of knew he had a gf, as they had a child he took off with her and left me standing with no closure, they are looking for the greener grass. cut him out
2007-02-22 10:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by littlemermaid_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did, said they were only living together cos neither had anywhere else to go. She ended up pregnant by him 5 months into our relationship. Dump him.
2007-02-26 08:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by sm80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would forget about him cause if he is still living with his ex I would think that it's not his ex, strange.
2007-02-22 10:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he wouldn't be MY "boyfriend" if he still lived with this "ex", plain and simple..there's obviously something wrong with that!!
2007-02-22 10:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋