i think im crazy insane ive lost the plot how come nobody sees what i see in the mirror?

Question

i see deformity and disfiguration someone help me i have already tried to end my life as im so ugly like really repulsive and i dint nknow e=what to do any more im so scared of the outcome of my life i dont sleep anymore im lost alone isolated desperate im not an attention seeker it is what i see truly i know i may gett on some of your nerves but it is very real to me and is very debiliating and horrible i dont know what or whom i am any more i jsut dont know can any one help im cracking up in my tears all alone with just a candle for some light im breaking down every night and every day what is wrong with me please what is it i see and others dont help me i dont know how to post a link and i wouldnt want to scare you to death with my horrendous facial apppearance have you any advice how do overcome what i look like

im on uglynet under uglywoman with camoflauge makeup on if you want to take a peek im soory if i offend any one by my sheer sick pig ugly buttt face

Answer 1

Whether your deformity/disfiguration is as bad as you think it is or not you really need professional help. Get to your doctor and get a recommendation to see a therapist/psychologist or whoever it is you need to see to help you. If nothing else you will have someone to talk to instead of sitting home alone worrying yourself sick. You don't say if you have family or friends? What do they say? Once you get into your therapy session they will help you see yourself in a better light (no pun intended) and if your appearance is such that it makes you mentally ill/suicidal they can refer you for corrective surgery if that is what is required. What is wrong with you is that you don't know where to turn for help - get to the doctor, tell him/her your worries/problems, don't hold back they can't help if you don't tell them everything. Go on make that appointment and get a bit of hope back into your life. Best of luck.

Answer 2

Im sorry to hear that you are not feelin well, and would advise you to seek some professional help, telling your doctor how you feel. Maybe then he/she will be able to draw up a plan that coud help you.

I will point out what I think though; you are a perfectionist and have set very, very VERY high standards for yourself. These standards are nigh on impossible for anyone to reach.

Yo do not accept yourself as you are and as how you look. You focus on the negative instead of the positives in your face.

These feelings are called "projections" and are what you ASSUME that others see in you. You are projecting your insecurities onto other people.

I really do wish you all the best. With time, patience, determination and persistance you will come to accept yourself as you are and I wish you all the best.

Answer 3

It's called body dysmorphia. Tyra Banks did a show about this not too long ago. Go to her website for more info.

You're probably not nearly as ugly as you think, and even if you were ugly, it's no reason to hate yourself and be depressed. There are deformed people who are happy and live satisfying lives, so it can be done.

You need some therapy to get over your guilt and self-hatred and warped self-consciousness. You're not your outward appearance.

And you might need some meds too--body dysmorphia is a serious medical issue and meds might help some of your physical and emotional symptoms.

Go to the dr. ASAP. You deserve to feel good about yourself.

Answer 4

it could be low self esteem maybe? saw the photo earlier - in my honest opinion you just look normal - not stunning in the hollywood sense (which is rubbish anyway) but not ugly.

think maybe seeing a doctor might be a good idea, i don't think you should be cracking up in tears everynight and it could be depression - if you can get some help from somewhere it could change your life.

don't think this will help very much but i believe it's what's on the inside that counts anyway.

i wish you all the best with this and really hope that you go and get some help to see that you are actually a beautiful person x

Answer 5

Why do you think you're ugly? You look pretty to me. You are the second person on there that I've seen that I have that opinion about, as a matter of fact.

But I can't say I don't know how you feel. I hate my fatness though I'm not really fat.

Take care. I care about you and God loves you and He doesn't make ugly people or mistakes.

Answer 6

I have no advice at all, i'm sorry. The only experience i can share with you is i was once so low, felt so alone and had no self belief at all. Those with all they think they need are the real losers, you have evry thing to gain. Next time you look in the mirror look only in your eyes and concentrate on the fact that you are unique, seek your gifts, they are there. I hope you find inner peace. I can fix nothing but i can give my total support.

Answer 7

I think you have body dismorphia as well as depression and I would see your doctor ASAP. I think that you are a normal looking person and dont see how you can think you are disfigured, have you seen burns victims or victims of car crashes? You are not disfigured or deformed and you should think yourself lucky as there are people alot worse off than you who can get on with their lives and are grateful for every minute they have.

Answer 8

God will wipe away all tears from our eyes someday. And the horrible things the devil has done will end forever. Someday you will have a new body, but you can have a new life inside and be beautiful inside by the power and grace of Jesus Christ. He can change your life, he changed mine, I use to want to die. Now He lives in me and my life is at peace and full of hope. I will pray for you.

Answer 9

You seem superb. You seem the main appropriate weight. while you're nevertheless seeing your self as fat and want to lose greater weight, that is a demonstration of an ingesting sickness and you may desire to talk on your well-being practitioner. in case you lose to a lot weight and alter into below weight, that is risky on your well-being. you'll be able to desire to evaluation to love your self.

Answer 10

Nobody has the same opinion on everything as everybody else. I'm sure you are just as normal as the rest of the population, but it does sound as though you are ill. Please see a doctor. I have heard of a condition that you describe the exact symptoms and it is not your looks, it is your brain. Please get help... soon.