wat do i do i really like this girl but i like cant talk to her becuz whenever i do i get really nervous and it always turns up that i start acting like an idiot
2007-02-22 10:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Force yourself to feel confidence! You can do it. Try to appear under control, but not to the point that you're making it obvious this is what you are trying to do. Relax brother. Make a joke, smile. It's not about talking, it's about acting a certain way: confident, polite and straight forward. Think about, I know this is going to sound strange, but Addressing her,,, casually though, not like royalty.
If you still sound like an idiot to yourself, cut down on the talking. Ask her interesting, appropriate questions about her-- let her talk about herself.
Don't stare at her unless you two are talking and when you do speak to her remember eye contact, like she is the only one in the room.
Good Luck.
Oh, and if she does agree to go out with you:
-Get her number, don't just give yours.
-Be a little aloof-- don't treat her like the world revolves around her. I'm guessing you think she's hot... just treat her like a normal person, she'll appreciate that. And don't try to act like something you're not.
-If she agrees to go out with you again, treat her like a friend who's a girl you would be interested in. Don't suffocate her.
If all else fails, follow my little sister's advice and treat her like she's a fat ho. No, seriously, if it doesn't go well, don't pout while she sees you, she might think you're cool just not for her and hook you up with a cute friend.
2007-02-22 10:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Heywood J Helpaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sweet, you really do like her. Maybe try writing her a note and tell her in that way, maybe sending that note to her in a nice bouquet of flowers. This way she will know how you feel and you dont have to start acting like an idiot in front of her. Once you have broken the ice, you're nerves may not be as bad and you will be able to talk more like urself instead of acting like an idiot like you put it.
2007-02-22 18:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop getting so nervous about it, relax. the worse that can happen is she rejects you, but the best is that she feels the same way. rejection is a part of life if that's the case. plus girls don't want a guy who can't even look them in the eye and talk to them ,they want someone who is confident not a bumbling idiot.
2007-02-22 18:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous stand up 4 love I heard this in a song, be though this is your moment you own it u better never let it go. ask her out before somebody those. Good Luck
2007-02-22 18:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by nuttymunkeyjunkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start slow. Say hi, etc...don't go in for the kill just yet. Sometimes it is easier if you approach it as if you were just trying to be her friend-that takes some of the pressure off. In the meantime--breathe!!
2007-02-22 18:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by navigate33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a big thing to talk to girls, just say whats on your mind.
2007-02-22 18:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur friend to talk yo her for u.
2007-02-22 18:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by corbin bleu's girlfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋