in my past relationship. Last night my boyfriend some really mean things while we were arguing. The one that stood out the most to me was: Do you want me to pull you by your hair and throw you and all your **** outside? And Your ex-boyfriend should kicked you *** harder, so maybe he could of gotten through to you.
Tell me how much I need to leave him please. Im 25 been with him 1 year.
2007-02-22 09:54:19 · 34 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, leave now, before he hurts you physically as well as emotionally!!! I worked in a domestic violence shelter and threatening to do something is one short step away from actually doing it. I've seen it. I'll never forget one case where he threw her and her 2 little kids (like 2 and 3) out, shoved her out the door with the kids in her arms. The kids were terrified and screaming but, I couldn't believe it, the cops didn't do anything to him! Because the lease was in his name and she wasn't bleeding!
Leave. You don't need to have someone so disrespectful and potentially physically harmful in your life. As my mother always used to tell me "Better alone than in bad company."
2007-02-22 09:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Spartan Sense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a disease that will cause you to lose all your hair, your eyes to cross, your teeth to protrude and cover you from head to toe in boils MORE than you need this guy! This is not a red flag ... it's a flaming red skyrocket. He has just shown you his true colors. He seems to have control issues and a bad temper. This does not bode well for a future together. Leave now before you get in any deeper and watch out ... he sounds like he could become a stalker!
2007-02-22 09:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I think that sounds kinda scary if you ask me. Never let anyone belittle you. I was once in a 3yr relationship-I made a small joke to my bf at the time, and he smacked me upside the head the way parents do to their kids sometimes when theyre being a smart-***. I told my good friends-they thought it was some form of abuse. At the time, I knew it was wrong, I did feel like he was controlling me. It was not a good feeling. Joking or not, that is NO way to treat/talk to your girlfriend.
2007-02-22 09:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you really need to leave him, no matter if you've been with him 1 year or 10 years. I don't know you, but I'm pretty sure that you deserve someone better. Anyone who treats somone like that should not get a nice, concerned girl like you.
2007-02-22 10:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by scape.squad.story 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, I hope this doesn't prejudice you to my response, but I think you should, DROP HIM LIKE THE PLAGUE, he is abusive, and does not deserve you. There are much better men out there, and with a little effort you can find one that will treat you with the respect, and dignity you deserve. I wish you all the luck in the world, and hope this situation works out for you.
2007-02-22 10:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! He has some temper on him...Just think--you don't want to be with him a couple years down the road and then have kids with him. He will treat all of you this bad. He has no right to speak to you this way, that is NoT normal no matter how angry you are with each other.
2007-02-22 10:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot really understand what you were trying to say in your question, but I am going to assume and attempt to answer. Your man threatened to pull you by your hair and throw you out? That is crazy. That is extremely abusive. You need to drop this ******. You do not need him. He is disrespecting you and you do not deserve to be treated like this. A man should kiss and worship the ground you walk on. And this man apparently is far from that. You need to get out of this relationship before he goes beyond making threats and actually engages in physical abuse. Please, sweetheart, get out before things get worse. And please do not fall into his pity apologetic sobe stories. If he tries to apologize and say he'll never do it again, do not believe him, because if he did it once, he'll continue to do it again. Drop him. He'll be sorry he ever treated you like this, because he'll be missing out on a good woman.
2007-02-22 10:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hunni, u should leave him. he's a piece of **** and if he has the nerve to say that, how do u kno he wouldnt do anything? and he doesnt exactly care about u much if he said stuff like that. you should leave him while u have a chance, and if he begs u to stay with him, you shouldnt give in. stay apart for at least 6 months before you consider changing ur mind.
2007-02-22 10:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and get out while you still can. He obviously has no respect saying those kinds of things to you, especially about your ex. He's a loser and he'll end up hurting you in more ways than just one if you stay. You deserve better! Now GO!
2007-02-22 09:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should really consider leaving him. from that statement I can tell that he's really disrespectful and if he could even say such horrible things to criticize your past relationship he really doesn't deserve you!!!! You can get someone much more sensitive at least enough to know that you NEVER bring up a woman's worst relationships!!!!
2007-02-22 10:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋