2007-02-22 09:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by soy de la ghetto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You simply just walk up and say "Hi, my name is (name)"
You dont need pickup lines or any kind of magical set of words to say. Believe it or not even though they are girls, their brain works almost the same as yours ;) I say except because they have twice as much fear as you and overthink things way more than you ever would.. And I know that you do.
The best approach is just pick a girl out you would like to meet, and walk up and introduce yourself. She should offer her name back or at least say "hi". If she doesnt give her name, make sure you ask for it if you dont know it. If you do know it use that in your introduction.. say "Hi Sarah, i'm..." she'll wonder how the f you got her name and think wow! If you didnt know her name already though, when she tells it to you, this is the most important lesson you will ever learn about introductions. Listen to her name when she says it and remember it. Say it back to her like this: Oh Hi Sarah, thats a nice name.. Also if you know anything about the name like your sister or mom or aunt or cousin has the same name, say that.. "Oh my cousin has the same name as you! Thats so cool!"
From there you want to just say a couple of things and then exit. So ask what kinds of classes she has, or what neighborhood she lives in. Then you can move down to something like what she does for fun. Just dont make it look too preplanned and dont be afraid to be nervous. In fact if you are nervous, tell her that. Let her know how scared you were to come up and talk to her. It will make her feel special and she will make it a point that you feel better about yourself for comming up and talking to her.
Females are genetically are caregivers and want to take care of other people. If you expose a weakness to them they will want to help ;)
Good luck ;)
2007-02-22 09:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just talk to them dont be nervous cause we can tell! Talk to us like you would talk to another person. I am sure you have watched some love movies or seen guys talking to girls in the halls. It really isnt that hard.
2007-02-22 09:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by amy_chesmore2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm, and confident, strike up a casual conversation, like the up coming ball game or something. most importantly be your self, and everything should go fine, good luck!
2007-02-22 09:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first just get to know them. If you have them in one of your classes just be yourself and talk. You may see many of girls you like but you want to know who they are and not randomly go up to someone. I have the same problem, I see guys I like and want to talk to them but I just can't find it in me to randomly go up to them.
2007-02-22 09:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a jerk....go up to her...and just be like "hey im ------ ...whats up?" make sure shes not around any of her friends and get to know her a little...flirt with her...and then ask her out
2007-02-22 09:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by zoeyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll really get her attention if you start with a compliment...like "How do you get your hair so shiny? It's really pretty!"
Or even..."That color sweater really makes your eyes stand out...you should wear that color more often!"
Good luck.
2007-02-22 09:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just flirt slowley with her
2007-03-02 06:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Livin by each second 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-22 09:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋