impossible we are both catholic. I want to go somewhere get married and have a great honeymoon. I do not care if the family is their or not. We have both been there done that. We can't decide when or where to get married. Do you think I am wrong for not wanting to include family and close friends?
2007-02-22 09:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by mom of two 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not for a second wedding I dont. Go away and have a wonderful and private time. You've boh done the bells and whistles once, make this one just for the two of you!
Good luck!
2007-02-22 10:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT wrong. You're in a perfect situation to do whatever you want with your wedding, given that both of you have done the traditional weddings. Go get married on a cruise ship, or on a Caribbean island, etc., and have a ball just between both of you. No headache with planning the wedding, and all the $ can go into your honeymoon. And believe me, your family/relative would be relieve that you're not having a banquet for your second wedding. They'd have to match or beat the gift that they gave you the first time around had they have to attend again. That's money saved and headache spared for EVERYONE except the wedding industry!!! I got married for the first time last in May of 2006 and even then my wife and I were having the same thoughts above, but we had to give in because it was out first wedding. Congratulations !!!
2007-02-22 18:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by fifty2weekhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your wedding! Perhaps you and your fiance can compromise with a wedding chapel wherever you travel. Perhaps Vegas, a lot of couples do that. Or Hawaii.
My husband and I were each married and divorced before we met each other. We decided to get married at a science fiction convention in costume with our friends there. My family came, his refused to come. We did cake and pizza for a reception. Very low key but meaningful to us. We did get a special blown glass cake topper and we had the minister pronounce us freemates. (It is a term from a Marion Zimmer Bradley book meaning a marriage of equals.)
2007-02-22 17:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shoul have an outside wedding in the spring or summer, that'll be cute, and u should let your family and freinds know cuz soon they'll wanna know why you havent married yet and they'll be upset if u tell them too late. But it is your life so have fun! good luck with ur man!
2007-02-22 17:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by klk17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think marrige is compromise. if he really wants to get married in church why not give him that one thing. you don't have to invite everyone and have a big party. it might just be important to him to be in church. it is possible even if you're catholic. you'll have to get an annulment if you want to marry again in the catholic church,thuogh i don't know the procedure. if thats not possible,just get married in a small non-denominational church.
2007-02-22 18:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I don't think that you are wrong at all for not wanting to include your family and friends. It's your day...do what feels right for you and your fiance. Just be sure to let everyone know that you are doing it.
2007-02-22 17:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by bajabug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but second wedding - it really doesn't matter...
2007-02-22 21:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋