This guy slept over a while ago and mind you im 17...he kept trying to do stuff but i was like nope. Sooo im pretty sure he got the idea that I want to dont to do stuff with him , at least right now( its kinda a bad time, but i didnt give the idea anyway)and he keeps calling like wanting to hang out again. Does that mean he wants to try to get me to do stuff again? or has he accepted that thats not what i want and just wants to hang out?
2007-02-22 09:43:45 · 14 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he likes you and wants to be with you whether that means something or nothing.
2007-02-22 09:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't **** with him. He's determined to get some no matter what you say or do. You let him in and that's the worst thing to do. Because if you let him into the house that means you will let him into other places. Be careful. Drop him, he ain't no good. I been through the same thing when I was 17 and I'm 20 now. We are still friends and every time we are supposed to be just hanging out he tries to do stuff with me (he has never gotten any because I already know how many girl he sleep with and a few std's he has had). Stand your ground! Good luck!
2007-02-22 09:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Silent Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight, tell him you're happy to hang out and be friends but thats all, as its a bad time for you right now, honesty is the best way, or if you dont like him in that way, he can either accept it and be mates or look for someone who does want to do stuff with him.
If he says he's happy to be friends and hang out and tries to pressure you again after you've been honest with him, he's not worth the friendship you offer.
2007-02-22 09:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having a guy spend the night and he's not even your boyfriend? He's obviously misunderstanding your intentions of inviting him over, what are your intentions anyways? I thought slumber parties were for girl friends. But anyways, I'm glad you have respect for yourself and let him know you didn't want to do anything with him. He's obviously trying to get in your pants, if he already tried, and is still insisting upon it. Don't let your guard down. And don't let him pressure you. Save it for when you're ready.
Good luck.
2007-02-22 09:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to try to do stuff again because he likes you and thats quite normal. But if you make it clear that you don't want to do that yet, and he is still happy to hang out with you then that should be okay. Assuming you like him and want to hang out with him too.
2007-02-22 09:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him, and tell him that right now, you are just concentrating on school, and that you hope that he can understand, because you do not want him to keep pressuring you about sex, and that you hope that he is on the same page as you, because you enjoy talking to him, and being around him. But school is the only thing, that is going to prepare you for life!
2007-02-22 09:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey either do stuff or find another friend. Aren't you a girl? Why did you invite him over if you didn't want to do stuff. Doing stuff can be fun.
2007-02-22 17:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prob just wants to know if u can still not do stuff the second time, like if its a challenge for him..
2007-02-22 09:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by chikita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to be confused about? He wants to boff you good and proper! Give in or live with it.
2007-02-22 09:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Macadoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at first you don't succeed then try, try, try, again. He's coming back for another go at it.
2007-02-22 09:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋