Hello. I am 43, divorced and delighted. However, there is a glitch. I want to have sex. Seems like that would be easy to acquire, however, I have this problem of getting attached. I can't have casual sex, I've only been with 5 people, and I'm proud of that. The next glitch is I don't want a "boyfriend". Is there any hope or suggestions for solving this dilemma?
2007-02-22 09:41:07 · 21 answers · asked by sandrangelina01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will tell you what - we could be friends and i will do you on the side - problem solved - Oh yeah e mail me a naked picture of you - thanks
2007-02-22 09:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get attached easily too. For me, the physical act of sex cannot happen unless I am emotionally there with the person. I dont like casual sex either...personal preference-i'd rather have it really mean something. Is there a trusted/caring close friend who you might want to get to know better/or perhaps date one day?...they might not become a bf, but they might be the next best thing. Im not suggesting a friends with benefits deal...just get to know the person and if there is mutual attraction and an understanding you never know what it might turn into...
2007-02-22 09:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you get attached easy and don't want a boyfriend there's only a couple of options I can think of.
Shower head with adjustable settings
Porn and Toys or
Bisexual affair
Have fun figuring it out ;)
2007-02-22 09:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by disneynut35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, if you can't do the casual sex, you need to "use a little toy or your fingers" to start with. Once that that starts to not be enough, go to a bar, get drunk and have a good time. Maybe someone will land in your lap and then you just have to be able to sneak out or try to get him out. Good Luck!:)
2007-02-22 09:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes find a guy who wants a casual relationship, and tell him you just want to see how things are going without gettting attached but for someone who has a "problem" of getting attached it prolly won't work out unless he was your boyfriend so the final solution get a dildo
2007-02-22 09:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by teinegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically what you're saying is that you want a friend with benefits. Finding one is not easy but if it was then it wouldn't be fun, would it now:)
Try the personals
2007-02-22 09:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by mr2demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gross!
Well..why dont u try getiin a boy well..actualy a man.
Uhmm..lets see what else.....whyd on tu next time try tellin some1 that is not on yahoo answer...cuz that is very private and gross.
G00D LuCk!
((hope I helped))
♥
2007-02-22 09:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a B.O.B - Battery Operated Boyfriend...aka, have sex with yourself.
2007-02-22 09:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a boyfriend and you don't want to get attached then you probably will have to hire someone
2007-02-22 09:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do if you don't just want to have sex with a stranger you just met or have a boyfriend other than masturbate or go to a sex store and buy things to masturbate
2007-02-22 09:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there and i know how u feel,attachments are not for me.so i becarefull and get what i need and keep on.avoid falling inlove for personal reasons is best due to past experiences.
2007-02-22 09:49:45 · answer #11 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋