How long does it take a girl to move on?

Question

i think this girl likes me... the signs are there... but lately i been ignoring her cause i guess i'm shy and shes shy too... and i guess we both been ignoring each other... but once in a while we always glance at each other and look away real fast... last week we look we made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds... that day she was waiting by the door when class was over and she was looking at me and i guess she was expecting me to say something, but i didn't i just walk past her like i didnt see her... since than i haven't glance at her since that happen...we did talk before it was 3 weeks ago... and the day after that she ask me for a piece of gum while i was doing my work and after i gave her a piece she said i'm sorry for bothering you... i wanted to tell her today that i like her... but she wasn't at school today... and i can't tell her tomorrow... cause i have an doctors appointment... so i'm just wondering do u think she still will be interest in me come this monday?... or u think she moved on?

Answer 1

I was the same way in High School. I was asked out multiple times by girls and it wasnt that I didnt like them. I was scared that I didnt know what to do and if i screwed up with them that word would get out about me and they publish stories about it in the news paper and on TV!

I'm sorry to say this to you my man but come monday, not only will she still like you. She'll like you more than she did today because you were gone friday and she didnt know where you were. She looked for you bro, and wondered why you werent at school. Its a guarantee that she will be very happy to see your face on monday.

This is your opportunity. On monday you need to talk to her and have a real conversation. Ask if she will sit with you for lunch monday. Make sure that you talk ther her though. Even if you have to walk into a different classroom that you're not in to do it. It doesnt matter how ebarrasing you think it is. Not only will she love it, every other girl that sees it will want you because you are brave and go after what you want. The guys in the class will envy you because they dont have the cojones to do it themselves.

You have nothing in the world to be scared of. From what you have said on here. Half of what you said tells me that she likes you, and she likes you a lot.

Dont be like I was when i was youre age. I regretted my entire life that I didnt go and tell that girl how i felt. Even though i know that you wont be rejected, this is your worst fear. Believe me, you can overcome rejection but regret is something that will never ever go away.

Good luck and let me know how it turns out!

Answer 2

Take chances. But do not rush it. If you like her, flirt with her and tell her how you feel...you could wait a while after you tell her how you feel and then ask her out. But I don't know her, and I think that what you think will be best will work. I'm a shy girl also, and my boyfriend is even more shy. But it just has to work in a way with one person acting on the relationship. You understand? Either the boy or girl has to do something or it just disappears. I think she has feelings for you...But I still dont' know the whole story. Girls don't move on quickly, unless they date guys often. It actually took me forever to get over this one guy. (almost a whole year!) I can't tell you if she has moved on or not because it depends on how much she liked you in the first place. But girls don't move on any faster than guys.

Answer 3

If she likes you and you still like her, then probably she'll still continue liking you. After all, the forbidden fruit is always the best, right? Girls are usually shy and they won't show what they really feel inside, so you'll get confused. Don't be fooled by that. If she likes you back, it'll piss her off if you don't make the first move.

Answer 4

With my experience with girls they continue to like you unless you get them pissed off at you, but walking past like you didnt see her was probably a bad idea. I'd say just ask her out on monday and see how it plays by, or haveone of her friends she hangs out with outside of school ask her out for you over the weekend, that way by monday she will have thought it over and give an answer.

Answer 5

girls always worry about the same thing. by the sounds of it. she seems really into you. the girl probably said that "sorry for bothering you" because maybe she wanted to feel assured that maybe you did or didnt like her. i still think she likes you cause in a way. girls always tend to think about there crush a lot. even if she shows she doesnt like you. so dont worry. she will still like ya.

good luck!

Answer 6

This girl actually likes u take a chance ask her out if u like her and she likes u what r u waiting 4!:) And yes i think this girl will still be interseted in u unless she is doing speed dating!

Answer 7

I'm sure she will, your good for "tomorrow" :). Tell her the stroy of your dilema sometime in the future if you two go out. That will score major points, and she'll know you really like her. You seem like a sweetheart, don't have anything to worry about :).

Answer 8

omg, you two sound so cute, i think she will feel the same, and you should probaly slip her a note in class ust a hey how ya doing kinda thing nad build up some.....something and talk to her more and then you or her can ask her or you out..........wow im so excited for you supper good luck to you

Answer 9

well if she really likes you than she will not move on that fast it takes a girl a while to actually stop liking a guy trust me i know!!!! good luck and dont be shy!!!

Answer 10

She probably hasn't moved on completely. If what you say is true, and she really did like you, she is probably trying to get over it. You should tell her as soon as possible. Don't lose her.