ok well you mite not know this but im on 13 and i think i actually am in love, right? PLEASE PEOPLE DONT SAY IM TOO YOUNG NO ONE IS EVER TOO YOUNG 2 B IN LOVE!! anywayz i really like this boy and he is my pride and joy he is everything about me and i dont know what i would do if he broke up with me, k so u know i REALLY like him right and he says he feels the same, i really wanna french kiss him and i cant help it i REALLY want to like soo bad!! how should i cause he is a lil shy! what should i do to let him know that i love him and how should i french him?!? people plz remeber he's 13 too and he is like a 1 month older than me, and HE'S SHY!! HELP PLZ
2007-02-22 09:22:35 · 13 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You "love" him, but don't know how to get close enough to kiss intimately? Hmmm....I always thought loving someone meant being able to get past barriers through communication, as well as spending time together doing things you like to do.
Although you are going to close your ears to it, you are NOT in love. You are developing feelings that are new and exciting, but it's actually nothing like the deep love you will develop for your husband someday. Honestly, it is an extremely rare thing for high school sweethearts to have a lifelong commitment, but for a young teen...next to impossible. Enjoy the time you spend with him, and explore these new feelings. Just BE CAREFUL!! Ask your mom if you can get on birth control. You may be thinking "Whoa! That's not what I'm going to do!!" but it won't be long until you get those feelings. Once you become physically intimate (which includes frenching), it's a downhill run. Unless you are extremely protective of your virginity, of course (which I hope you are).
I know I probably sound like your mother. That's because I am a mother. Not to mention both of us were in your shoes at one time and lived through it. Listen to the voice of experience, hun.
Blessings
2007-02-24 10:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Silverwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love when i was that age. I got to say i regret the break up and i know he does to. I know talk to him every day as a best friend and soon to be more, even though many many years have past we still fall for each other. I say if you shy wait for the moment the right moment i know you didn't want to hear it but i didnt either. My boyfriend and i talked about everything including this so i say get to know him. But one thing i learned or was told is most guys like to make the first move... I say wait a few weeks like 2 and if you feel the same way and you are sure he does too then go for it. One thing though True Love isn't about making out its about friendship and everything else. I could go on and on... need anything else email me..
2007-02-22 09:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time alone, when it would be good making-out time, just look at him and tell him you want to show him something. Then when you lean in for a kiss he will too (probably hesitantly if he's nevr done it) and then after a couple of regular kisses, you gently go French on him. Be prepared for him to be startled, but hopefully not freaked out - if he loves you too it should be ok! Be brave, take the initiative, and you'll do just fine I bet!
2007-02-22 09:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi kids... ( I mean both of you). Go back to school and do your home works at home and nothing more. Its too young to know LOVE when you are just 13. I had few feelings at this age which is normal. But that's not Love. Infatuation.
2007-02-22 09:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always try want i'm trying. you can go to the movies with your friend and their boyfriend that make out a lot and when they start making out during the movie be like 'that's sweet'. just don't rush it or you will bein trouble. i rushed kissing my ex and he ended up cheating, so now i'm waiting with my current bf. don't make the mistake i did, don't learn from experience. oh, and like send him an email or text saying like 'i care so much and i don't wanna scare you, but i really wanna french you, i just thought you'd wanna know the truth.'
2007-02-22 09:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by mocktrialcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that's cool. Just remember that while you're not too young to love, you ARE to young to get hot and heavy with it. You need to keep it calm, cool and collected before you do things that you'll regret for the rest of your life.
2007-02-22 09:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him.tell him how you feel he probably feels the same way but to shy to say anything.im 13 too.were not to young has anyone ever heard the song young love by chris brown.lol.good luck
2007-02-22 09:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by mitchel mussos girlfrann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG memories....okay so my boyfriend was like you guy to. SO what i did was make the first move. We were watching a move and i had my head on his shoulder adn i kept looking up at his cause he was taller than me and he kept looking down and then i just slowly reached up and kissed him once softly on the lips and then he built up all this courage and started kissing all over me. It was great,...id try that
2007-02-22 09:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Aime'e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart.. focus on your academics and stop worrying about "frenching" boys. OK? You're infatuated, and in lust. Slow down, you are young.
2007-02-22 09:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These kinda questions are stupid obviously your the shy one or you would just do it already..come on get some guts. If you want it that bad just do it.
2007-02-22 09:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by chelzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋